My sibling has been married for almost two years now. Before the wedding we enquired only about the basic ancestral background about the boy's parents in Kerala. The boy's side and we reside in Bangalore. So, under pressure from the boy's side to hurry up things, we somehow did not enquire much about the family in Bangalore. A couple of months after the wedding we'd come to know that he isn't holding a job as claimed by them and his dad even after retiring from public transport-Vigilance dept goes to a Pvt job. Keeping his dad's contacts in view he claims he has influence in the police dept. Now my sister is working for Railways. For the first year issues starting from the 4th day after the wedding, the insufficient gold, the salary, the transfer of salary to his account and constant taunting and harassment was metted out and physically abused, whenever she visited Bangalore, as job transfer was delayed. After transfer the issues became intense and he left her back at our (her parents') house. At the question of the returning of ornaments, we were manhandled and he gives multiple answers to different intermediaries. There was a counselling session, where the counsellor didn't seem to be addressing his issues directly and it was openly discussed that he had made sure the counselling was biased. We have no idea how to proceed regarding the relationship as we still hope things would turn positive. If not how to go about? As every thing they do seems like it is with legal advice. One of the answers we got regarding the ornaments is that he would return it at the time of settling. Kindly provide your valuable advice.
