There are extreme judgmental attitudes towards men in the society and in the media. If a man divorces his wife for s*xually not performing, he will be termed a monster and a chauvinist. But, if the woman does the same, then it is considered a woman’s right to have multiple orgasms every night and the man will be termed “not man enough”, if he fails or refuses. To make these double standards worse, most men believe women are s*xually innocent, nice creatures and they find it extremely difficult to take any portrayal of wild side to female s*xuality. If male s*xually is brutally qestioned, why discussion on female s*xuality has to be kept in the closet? Some comments in this article, will show the difficulties of some people to take it, when one questions women (using free speech). Now, people who have problems in accepting questioning of women, should never question or stereotype men.
It says,”According to city psychiatrists, in the last three years, the number of women quoting s*xual dissatisfaction as ground for divorce has doubled. Advocate Kranti Sathe gives the statistical backing to this, saying there has been an at least 10% annual rise in such cases. Dr Rajan Bhonsle, professor and head of the department of s*xual medicine, KEM hospital says, “Sexual dissatisfaction is one of the prominent reasons for divorce initiated by women. They are very vocal about their feelings and needs these days.”
Now, lets us look into the serious issue of “unmet s*xual expectations” and how women are at the receiving end of it.
Now-a-days, a large number of idiot progressivists have propagated a notion in the media that “Sex is Entertainment”. These idiots regularly appear in TV programs or write columns in the newspapers. For them s*x is like watching a movie or going to a picnic. Now, most foolish Indian women and men have taken these idiots and their “broadminded liberal” advice too seriously and have continuously strived to enrich their s*x lives.
What these foolish urban Indians fail to realise is that there is no end to “s*xual desire”. The more entertaining s*x you have, the more will be the desire. The higher desire will make you experiment and the resultant pleasure will increase the desire further. This vicious circle continues to spiral upwards until there is something drastic like condom burst or viagara overdose happens. Any stoppage of these stimulating experiments, leads to pathetic empty feelings or depression.
Now, lets look at the problems of young urban Indian women. Today, most young urban Indian women change their boyfriends in every couple of months. Some even maintain several boyfriends (s*xual partners) and even sugar daddies at the same time. The s*xual liberation has made women bring “explorative manliness” into their s*x lives. The women’s capability to have tireless multiple orgasms have made them crave more like the characters in “Sex and The City”. To fulfill and experience all these fascinating s*xual stimuli, young urban women have not only brought in varierty, but also they experiement with cyber s*x, role plays in internet chat rooms and phone s*x, sometimes annonymously and sometimes they masturbate, while watching each other over webcams. It seems many of these Indian women are so cut off from reality that they are even searching for some Indian male as well endowed as p*rn star “mandingo” after watching his p*rn.
Now, s*xually liberated young urban women can not continue have all these hightened s*xual stimulating experiences inside marriage, where they have to remain satisfied with one man and his organ. While their parents arrange very conservative weddings, no one knows how many blowjobs she has performed before (as shown in a comic wedding scene/song in the movie “Delhi Belly”).
One option for these Sex-and-City Indian babes to get 20 orgasms in a day is to indulge in adultery. However, the smart ass Indian husbands are now armed with keyboard loggers, spycams, GPS trackers, voice recorders, spy phone softwares; they are always on the watch. This has put serious limitation on adultery, one night stands or occassional quickies for these women. Some of them have started organising and promoting sultwalks to reclaim the right of a young woman to be a “slut”. However, the broom weilding conservative feminist b*tches threatened them with ass whipping.
So, the bottomline is, there is no way any young urban woman can remain satisfied inside a marriage, if she has experienced the bliss of having s*x with multiple men before marriage for prolonged periods of time. No man can satisfy such a woman. Afterall, male s*xual expression is an extremely tiring experience.
To make the matters worse, such young babes also get extremely abusive, if her husband refuses to have s*x once in a while. These abuses make the man lose interest in her and that can drastically reduce his s*xual advances. Many females turn physically violent in such situations and they scratch or bite the man if he refuses to have s*x. Some of these Indian women even think of chopping man’s organ or even pouring gasoline on his organ to put it on fire.
Now, all these unmet wild s*xual experiences make women feel marriage as a big burden. So, divorces are increasing and it is presented in media that divorces are increasing due to lack of time and passion for relationships and hectic stressful work schedules. However, the actually reality is that many urban Indian women hold their husbands completely responsible for performance in the bed. They also fail to see that abusing husbands can seriously worsen the s*x lives of couples.
Until people get to their senses and get to reality of it, it is futile attempt any solutions to this problem. Sex is not Entertainment and that is the “reality”.
