Dear Sir,
i married with a girl 18 month back in arya samaj mandir after that we are not living together becouse we were planning to convince parents for social marriage and still the arya samaj marriage is secret. then i tried to convince the parents of women and they agreed for marriage and decided to marry 01 june 2012.
within this process i am feeling that now she is not intereseted to marry bcoj she is excusing even to talk about marriage and lieing,she is busy in watching movie, roaming with friends,where ever she is gonig not telling me the truth even some time i catched her telling lie.she went 3 days jaipur without informing me with her friend (she was with a girl as per discussion) and in this period she didn't talked to me. after coming she told they went for interview and training in jaipur airport for grond staff in air india then i made call to jaipur airport but according to them there was no interview it means she is totally avoiding the marriage and her family is also not concious about it.
in this condition if i am leaving all the condition like it then she will enjoy her life bcoj she is 300 km far from me and 200 km far from parents.and when ever she will feel she will come back to expoil my life then pls tell me what should i do.how come i accept or ignor her.
one more thing i have got selection in bank and govt teaching job if she is doing any thing wrong then what type of loss i can get.
In case of mutual devorce if the women is not asking about maintenance in The First Motion Petition then is there any possibility that she can claim about it after six month in The second Motion Petition.
as in my case if she is being agree today for mutual devorce without any condition and after my job if she says that she will live me then what will be the condition.