NATARAJAN IYER (Proprietor) 06 October 2015

MEN - First Stop Crying

MEN....Hello, Men, Please stop crying.

Come On....Get Up...If you have had a problem, move towards the solution.

I know it is difficult. Very Difficult. But if you fall, who will keep the spirits of your family members, up and active ???

But that pain of yours is emotional.

Deal with the technical part and for the emotional part, strengthen yourself by reminding yourself that you have a HUGE LIFE ahead of you.

Some woman and her group, LIKE COWARDS, hit you from behind and RAN AWAY.

I had posted a response to a member on this forum. He was clearly disturbed.

He is a good thinker and it pained me to see him get into depression.

That reply, I have posted here.....EVERY SINGLE MAN ( GENUINE VICTIM ) should read this and listen to the four. I hope most of you understand Hindi. So the four would be clear.

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WHAT THROWN OUT ??

WHO WAS THROWN OUT ??

HELLO !!! WAKE UP...

YOUR WIFE THREW HERSELF OUT OF YOUR LIFE....

COME ON....WAKE UP AND SEE THE REALITY.

DO NOT PUSH YOURSELF INTO DEPRESSION, INFERIORITY COMPLEX AND MOST IMPORTANTLY

DO NOT WATCH THE HORROR MOVIE THAT SHE AND HER GROUP HAVE SCRIPTED FOR YOU.

COME OUT OF HER MOVIE THEATRE.

A WIFE WHO DOES NOT HAVE THE PATIENCE AND TOLERANCE FOR A HUSBAND, ACCEPTING HIM FOR BOTH HIS POSITIVES AND NEGATIVES, SUCH A WIFE DOES NOT DESERVE A HUSBAND AND MATRIMONIAL LIFE.

SO, AS PER THE LAW OF NATURE, SHE KICKS HERSELF OUT OF HER HUSBAND'S LIFE AND HER OWN MATRIMONIAL LIFE.

READ THIS FULLY....for your situation.

You walk alone

You cry alone

You die alone

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This is the reality of Life.

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Now, just get over this accident of your life.

Yes, it is just an accident.

THE TIME WHEN YOU GET UP AND DUST YOURSELF AND MOVE ON...THAT TIME IS THE TURNING POINT OF YOUR LIFE.

Once you get up, now, NO FORCE ON EARTH can stop you.

But, WHEN...that WHEN is the question.

when will you GET UP, DUST YOURSELF, LAUGH AT THE PEOPLE WHO HIT AND RAN, PICK UP WHATEVER IS LEFT OUT AND MOVE ON ?

That date, that day, that time, that moment --- THAT MOMENT OF YOUR LIFE IS WHEN YOU TURN AROUND AND FLY.

Jo beeth gayee so baath gayee...do not turn backwards anymore.

See what the solution is and move towards that.

See, There was this chap working as a labourer at a hotel.

Around the year 2007-2008.

He was earning two hundred rupees a day.

He had TWO WIVES and both of them were living with him

All three were living happily.

I heard of this chap from my acquaintance who owned a hotel.

So, if people want to be happy they will.

if they want to be sad, they will.

It is more of a choice and less of a compulsion.

Yes, i agree, it is difficult, very difficult, when you are the victim.

But look at it the other way. WHO CARES ?

Somewhere somebody planted an explosive in your life, the bomb went off and you are injured.

But you are writhing in pain and the culprits are not bothered.

That is life.

ALWAYS DOUBT THE UNDOUBTED AND SUSPECT THE UNSUSPECTED.

If YOU ARE NOT ALERT, FROM SOME-WHERE A MOUSE ENTERS YOUR HOUSE AND YOU HAVE A HELL OF A TIME TO DRIVE THAT MOUSE OUT.

SO TOO IS LIFE.

IF YOU DO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO THE SIGNALS OF NATURE, SOME DAY THE IMPACT IS HUGE...VERY HUGE.

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To you, My suggestion is this

BASED ON YOUR WRITINGS OF ALL THESE DAYS, I CAN SEE THAT YOUR MIND IS STILL FRESH.

THE CLARITY OF THOUGHT, THE WORDS YOU USE, THE REALITY YOU POINT OUT,...etc etc etc....

YOU MUST DEFINITELY BE A PERSON FROM A REFINED and CULTURED FAMILY BACKGROUND.

SO, REMEMBER THAT YOUR FRESH MIND, despite all the nonsense and nuisance and garbage hurled at you, THAT FRESH MIND OF YOURS, is GOD's Gift to you.

Such a FRESH MIND is rare even after all hell in matrimonial life.

I have seen many victims take to drugs and alcohol and s*x-workers.

But your thinking is CRYSTAL-CLEAR.

So, COME WHAT MAY, JUST DO NOT PERMIT ANY HARM TO THAT FRESHNESS OF YOUR MIND.

That is your WEALTH NOW.

MOST IMPORTANTLY, YOU DO NOT HARM YOUR MIND.

HERE is one for you to listen and THE MEANING OF EVERY WORD is very significant in your case.

This is a FULL VERSION in (1) and the last portion of this (1) applies to you. (2) is a rejoinder. (3) and (4) too.

So, listen completely.

Two here. Both apply to you. Listen to (1) first and then to (2).

(3) will be your wife's state one day. But do not bother. Keep Moving.

(4) is for your immediate implementation....