Dear Members, I have already posted my marriage details but it seems to have confused everybody. I will just state the facts.
Groom ( 31 yrs) ( me) from tamilnadu. Bride (26 yrs) from Karnataka. Arranged marriage in Jan 2011. Both are employed.
Bride refuses to have physical relationship after marriage citing fear, ( Till date no physical relationship)
Bride askd for 3 months time shift to grooms place citing employment reasons. Groom agrees but bride refuses to shift stating that she will shift only if she gets a job. Groom and his family try hard to convince but bride doesnt listen to anyone. Bride still in maternal home after 8 months of marriage.
Frequent fights because of bride not shifting and frustration for the groom due to no physical relationship.
Ultimately bride askd for divorce. Groom's family tries to convince but she doesnt not listen. Groom files RCR, bride doesnt showup in the 1st hearing.
What is the fastest way for the groom to escape from this hell and get a divorce - Mutual ( is 1 year required and should i wait for another 6 months), or on the basis of cruelty. God someone please help me. My parents are devastated and my life is totaly spoiled because of this marriage.