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munni (house wife)     07 July 2013

My husband harasing me

Hi all,

  We got married since last tw year and stayed together for 6 month. During this period he scold me quite often for no reason.. Then after my miscarriage, and after that I am staying at parents house..

Reason for not joining with him:

1. As he turtured me, so initially over phone I many time denied to join with him (at abroad).. I told that
as I am educated, so I want to job at India (because at that country I did notget job).. Althogh he has contractual job at abroad and some time lessmoney then also he prefer to stay over there, which I don't like..For that I asked him several time to come back to India adn settle here, so that we both can do job.. But hus intension is to stay over there, so that I will stay apart form home and he can turture me, .. by te time no job in my hand..

2. Even few time he threating to father and insulted to my mom, infront of every body with no reason..we have telephonic record on this..

Many time we asked him to come to our house and seat for a settlement (By letter), but he keep silent and filed RCR..But his intension seems to be some thing fishy..

In such case what shall I do? during RCR can I tell to join with him? But one thing is that I can not rely to him.. He is a dual game player..He may do some thing herm to me..

In between for one year I told not to join (and I will stay at India and do job).. On that basis can he file divorse?

In such case what shall I do?

So now we separated for around 18 month and no connection with him.. In case what shall I do?



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Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     07 July 2013

The predominant reason for your staying away from him is due to the toruture your received from him, then the courts will treat it is a reasonable ground and will not give favourable order to him in RCR.  Only after 2 years of desertion only, he can file divorce petition. there also, if you prove successully that above said ground, he will not get divorce.  But your reason to stay away from him is that you will not get job abroad, then it is difficult for you to satisfy the court in his RCR or divorce petition, as these things are supposed to have been decided that where the girl has to stay after marriage-either India or abroad. 


(Guest)
@adv. Chandu....before you advise such bugger wives, have you asked her what torture she would have given to her husband's family after filing false case by her?

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