Dear Forum Members,
I previous posted a question to seek help as my wife was staying with my in-laws for over 3 years :
Link to the previous post : https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/forum/Need-help-wife-staying-with-in-laws-for-3-years-152089.asp
Now out of the blue, some of her relatives have approached my uncle to seek a mutual divorce. Her relatives being lawyers have suggested that this would be good for me otherwise they are capable of ruining my life. Hence I wanted to know what are the possible conditions to be wary of while going for mutual divorce.
What I desire is :
1. I want to be a part of my son's life ( i have a son who is a little over 2.5 years now). So what conditions should I agree on while filing for divorce. Im very much open to having his custody, joint custody or even spending a whole day with him weekly.
2. I have stopped visiting my in laws place as they were abusing me in front of my son. So during or after the divorce proceeding- how can i request to meet him outside of their house ?
3. Im still not open to divorce but i heard from a distant relative that she is getting remarried to someone else and hence the talk of mutual divorce. This can very well be a rumour - I have no way of finding the truth. But none the less, I cant force anyone to stay with me if they dont intent do . But she has plans of moving abroad with my son. How can i stop that as she is keen on separating him from me (or vice versa)
4. Currently Im still out of job(but im capable of finding one within 30 days or so. I have declined a few offers as my present state of mind is not conductive and im in depression). So how to settle the maintaince or anything financial
5. For some unknown reason they want us to accept to the condition - that we asked her and my son to leave the house. I know this sounds like a pitfall.
If you can also point to a template of a mutual divorce document, then i would be glad and thankful.
Thanks