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Akash (Service)     07 April 2012

Need help

Dear All, 

 

In the month of June 2011 I proposed a girl for marriage in Bengali matrimony for Nov 2011. She have accepted the request through Bengali matrimony site. She told me that the year 2011 is not good for Her. She told me that in the month of 2012 Feb as January is her birth month. I agreed and booked my ticket for her City. Then she told me she cannot marry before 1 year as she have joined in a organization in her city and she have bond for 1 year and she cannot break that bond. I agreed and came to her city and we did our marriage registration. Just after marriage registration she informed that she cannot start matrimonial life before 2 year as she is going to do Masters. I came to my city of work and she continued to stay with her parents .But every month I requested her for to come with me for start family. But after 6 month she asked for break up again  giving reason that I am not ready for social marriage and informed me that she have already chosen new life partner and she have resigned from her job . But now where is the Bond. And she have mentioned she cannot wait for lifetime for me. Then she have filed a case against me for null and void but court reject that petition after hearing to both of us. Then I offered for social marriage in the month of Baishak, May 1012. But she is saying again she cannot marry because she is busy with studies.  

 

Kindly help what will be my legal step. As Its disturbing a lot and I am not able to concentrate on my work.

 



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 11 Replies

Vivek Singh (Software Engineer)     07 April 2012

I am not getting why did she agreed to go into registered marriage with you? Was this done with both of the parents' consent?

In anycase, since you 2 didn't know each other before the matrimony website, you shouldn't have gone into so hurried marriage. It should have been a proper marriage, which also helps in bringing the 2 closer. The registration is just a paperwork and there is no mental bonding due to that.

IMO, the girl was giving enough signs to you by her excuses that you should not go into marriage with her. Still you married. Of course, your case is strong, but what will you get even when she agrees to live with you. She will bring again some excuse now and then will make your own life difficult.

Akash (Service)     07 April 2012

You are right Vivek. 3 month we were talking in mobile for 2-3 hours everyday and we came close. For me me I was thinking we were in love and she also shows many sign. I know I did a mistake and need legal advise.

Arvind Singh Chauhan (advocate)     07 April 2012

Without any marriage proof and witnesses How you registered the marriage ?

Akash (Service)     07 April 2012

We have arrange a marriage in her city with our friends and we registered the marriage with witness. But without the presence of our parents.

N.K.Assumi (Advocate)     07 April 2012

Interesting episode.

Vivek Singh (Software Engineer)     07 April 2012

This was not love marriage. Why did you not involve parents?

N.K.Assumi (Advocate)     07 April 2012

Interesting episode.

rajiv_lodha (zz)     07 April 2012

Better drift away from this girl.....................sooner the better

Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     07 April 2012

She is not good for you.  She loves none except herself.  You have only two options.  To take revenge against her by not giving divorce or forget everything as a bad dream and go for mutual consent.  The choice is yours.

Akash (Service)     07 April 2012

Thanks you all for reply. If I want to go for MCD when can I apply. Now it is 7 month. What are the paper should I prepere before MCD so that in future I should not face further harrasement. Or without divorce any other option is there.

Adv. Chandrasekhar (Advocate)     08 April 2012

As per existing law, you have to wait for one year to file MCD.


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