need help,
its 3.5 year's now we married, I don’t have kid yet. it a love marriage, before marriage its was more then 5 years we where in relationship. My husband is into financial business. & I started supporting his business after marriage. i was working in one of the MNC company as s/w engineer, left my job & my career and joined him.
our marriage did not accepted by his family, but my family accepted it. Since marriage our relationship dint go well, my husband expected to have a kid within 1 years, whereas i dint agree because, i felt it was too early and even i hav a sis who dint married yet, waited for her to get married, Later i accepted to have a kid.
My mom she stay close to my home, I use to visit frequently, he always use to be very late to home. I was feeling all alone, so I use to visit my mom’s house, quite frequently, which he started disliking, There parents want his support for everything, I never get into it, so I accepted coming late to home. Every time he visit his parents home and return back he start up argument for disliking me from his family.
Due to which he started abusing me and started physical harrarment, I sustained. I found that their family was forcing him to get another marriage. By this upset.
he started finding many girl friends, where he spent maximum time on phone. Started speaking late night, moving around, which i dint like it. when i questioned he managed to handle me, he was forcing to have a kid with me, which I never got conceived, for which he used to fight with me i never had a peace of mind with him, Started abusing me & my family.
I still managed to handle home and him office. AS the day goes on, He started ignoring me. I thought ok he is wild at me, let me give him the space to relax then talk to him, this continued for couple of month. in this period i dint realized that he started having illegal relationship.
Later i started tracing him to check what’s happening, slowing i got to know many thing, from his girl friend.
When i questioned him he accepted that he did mistakes, having physical relationship with other ladies.
For this mistake i accepted assuming that maybe i would have been the reason for him to do this mistake, within a day. Later he came with an other shocking news that he gave conceive to another lady who is now 3 months.
He is requesting me to accept her in my life sharing my husband, which i cant do. But he is not ready to leave either me, "he say's that he cant leave without me, but i cant leave even that lady since i promised her."
Please suggest me what i have do, how to handle this situation, I cant accept him with other lady with baby.
I need divorce. how to go about it. Please help.
