Originally posted by : Ankit |
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Finally After 8 months of desertion and fighting the case in CAW Cell and proving her wrong there, my wife got the FIR Filed in a different state in December, Maintenance case pending in delhi, I have applied for AB and as per my lawyer's advice while the AB hearing was pending and as per court's order, have returned all the articles she brought along in the wedding, and joined the investigation, My wife in the AB Hearing asked for Mediation and Compromise, and the case was sent to mediation center, where the first day she told complete lie, and said that she wanted to live with me separately from my family to which i denied, she said that just agree to live with her separately and she will take all the cases back, when i asked then why did she file the cases at the first place? she went numb and no answer, the second date when i denied to live separately and told her that i will fight the cases on merits, she said that " cases to vakilo ne file karwa diye" to which i replied" then go and live with those lawyers why do you want to live with me ?? she again went numb, the mediator said that she will give in writing that she will not do that again, i told the mediator that she has given me in writing earlier as well that she will take the case back however the case is still pending in the court, then what is the guarantee that it will not happen in the future. Again no answer from both mediator and my wife, the mediator then failed the mediation and i have got AB, Now what will be the next course of action, ???
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Once bitten twice shy.
As they have played all tricks, mediation will fail again, and matter will go back to square 1.
It is not that she might have learnt a lesson or two now, and proclaims innocence of not knowing what cases they were and what effect it might have upon you, but the time is gone. Once a martial relationship enters a police station or court, the scantity of the relationship is gone, trust is gone which cannot be repaired back to normalcy.
So its totally dependent on you whether you want to take her back inspite of what all torture she has given you till now. Chances are, she might have become a changed person [which is a rarity, going by my experience seeing such cases] or might come back to teach you further more lessons like these and still torture you.
Giving in writing blah blah etc wont hold good in court of law, there is always a chance of her flipping that she was forcibly made to sign such MOU which again might go against you. So it is better to file for divorce [MCD] and part ways as gentlemen, rather than fighting out cases for the next 5-6 years from which both of you wont gain anything and you end up wasting time and money on litigation.
So convince her for MCD by hook or crook, they will surely ask for money, dont think about money, time n tide wait for none.,, pay her money and get divorce, marry someone who is compatible with you and your family. Dont listen to people who say fight it out till last breath, each of us come with prepaid balance of life, so make best use of time what you have got.