Dear sir,
I need your valuable suggestion
Dear Sir,
Marriage was fixed through matrimony website,my self was working on behalf of icici bank personal loans and was earning well, i told a lie that i have completed degree, but i was having arrears,i did not consult my family for marriage, my wife had a brain tumor knowing this i married her, my family members said no for the marriage, and considering my wife health i asked my father in law to see a house near by them,but unfortunately every thing went bad first i got a loan from my father in law of rs 50000 before marriage, because my father was not financially sound to conduct the marriage,to buy dresses and mangal sutra for my wife for that purpose i borrowed from my father in law,without any interest, and i lost my job in icici after marriage and suffered for 6 months without a proper job so i pledged my wife jewels with her permission for 1,00,000, for which i gave a two blank cheque ,with interest from his friend both are state government employees, without a proper job was paying principal and interest , and my father in law threatened me that i will put a case by depositing your cheque ,for not paying the interest and principal, father in law does not believe me in sending my wife for a living . she had a brain tumor before marriage and i married her by knowing this, due to financial problem i pledged my wife jewel including( 150000). they even taken my jewel which they offered me on my marriage , i want a solution to live with my wife, they tortured me like anything because of this me and my wife got fight between, now they dont believe me sending their daughter with me , i want a solution whether to live with her or to divorce her.even my wife nodding her head what his father say . if she comes and stay alone with me i will take care of her, he used abused words to me and to my father, please suggest me what to do and now i have settled 60k out of 1,5 lakhs .they have taken all the things which they offered me on marriage like fridge, TV, washing machines and other house hold furnitures i have even given my wrist watch which they presented me on my marriage, i dont want their money and other things , am not money minded , my father in law gave me the loan through their friend both are in state government my father in law also done BA LLB , i need a solution for this big problem,i want to live with my wife permanently in my place but they are asking to stay near by them, i think this is not fair,please suggest me on this,
even i went for compromise talks and they are not even bothered about their daughters life please suggest me what to do,
Recently on 26/09/2010, my mother-in law friend went for a compromise talk, but they used abused words, and they are not interested to send my wife for a living and on condition if thats the chance , they want me to come and stay near them, considering my wife health, but if i stay near them also do you think i can live happily ?
Beginning of the marriage they said my wife had a brain tumor and operated which is cured and she can lead a family life like she can deliver a baby and can do normal work, but now they are saying considering her health they want me to come and stay near them, as she cannot do more house hold work, and she needs a care, i understand their feelings but if they are genuine person i can do everything for them, please suggest me what to do next, if they apply for divorce will am be responsible to pay the maintenance and they are well settled and having more money , am just a person earning 10k, what should i do if they claim maintenance......should i be the first to send notice or should i wait for their legal proceedings and then to proceed , am interested to live with my wife, but my in laws are not ready .....
please suggest me to come out of this problem and how to defend myself from claiming maintenanace.
