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Need suggestion for unexpected problem

Hello Experts,

I got married in June 2010. In the 2nd day My wife confess me that she was raped by her yelder Sister husband around 1 month before Marriage. I shocked and no healthy relation happen beteen me and my wife . Then i Come back to my working place and concentrated my job...then my wife came to me in 2011 and we started living together so many times fight happen between me and my wife. then we got Son in Nov 2011 and again some improvement came in our relation...then one day i found that on her Yahoo mail normal "How to Start Your New life " mail Came from that person who raped her.Mail sent to so many people and looped to her also, at the end of mail her jija written that "Talk to you Soon". I again asked her and she was saying i don't know about this... but i found that mail is already checked by her. I warned her in 2nd day of my Marriage that she should not have any contact with her jija either offline or online. then again in 2015 i found that in her facebook profile that person photo was taged by her younger sister then fight again happen and she left house and gone to her younger sister in Mumbai and when my parents called to her she said that she is in Cheenai.Her parents was there and they was reapeating same thing that they are in Chennai.she spend there around 15 days and then Come back to her parents in UP. then i and my parents gone to her house but their behivour was very ODD. Her Parents blame me that all fault in on me ...and there is no fault in her daughter.I accepted my fault OK and then they asked her that she wanted to go with me or not ... but she was saying that she will not continue her life with me... then i touch her leg and asked for sorry.. but she didn't agreed ....then my parents decided she will go with him and be there upto 1 month. She agreed and come back to my house... but her behaviour was not good for my parents...she was talking to her relative on phone but not picking my phone....then again argument happen betwwen me and her and she said that she wanted to go to her parents house... eventhough reservation of flight was 17th of Aug 2015...cz she was agreed to come back to me....now today (14th aug 2015) morning she talk to her parents and left my house...As my Son is 3 Years Old and i am very much bother about his basic eduation...but she didn't care about this and waht her parents is saying she is doing accordingly. I am not able to understand what action she can take against me and my parents.

Shall i Call her and asked to come 17th to me .This ticket reservation will work as proof for me or not. if she will put false allegation on me.

As i have Voice recording when she was describing about rape to her mother on phone.

please Suggest what is the premilinary action's i can take against her.

Regards,

Deep

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SuperHero (Manager) 14 August 2015

@Raj - Looks like things have went far beyond repair...

Never ever touch a Women's Leg and say Sorry....

Just ignore her..If you plead they will dance on your head more and more... Take care of your Son.

If some mediators come and ask just tell them it is her duty to take care of the child as Mother.

If they file case, fight accordingly... They can't do anything....Wish you Good Luck..

saravanan s (legal advisor) 15 August 2015

superhero is right in his advice.if the kid is not there i would have adviced you to take divorce from her.but if you think the relationship had gone sour to the extent that it could never become normal you can file a contested divorce case. child custody wouldnt be given to you till the child reaches five years of age.

Born Fighter (xxx) 15 August 2015

One more case of a women taking advantage of her own wrong.What a mentality is this i dont understand.....

Your wife had committed fraud by hiding the rape incidence from you and disclosed only after marriage and on 1st night..........

Raj, you are been fooled by her since beginning and she continues and i see a potential case for 498a or DV, so be cautious and keep gathering evidence before you or she files for Divorce. Based on your version ....Im sorry and suspect there could be a love angle between your jija and your wife, and the relation went sour after your wife got married to you and the Jija could have threatened her to inform you about the affair and hence she cooked up the story of rape by Jija............dig deep into it.

The mail conversations that you mentioned do not prove anything, but still i dont understand how your wife can blame you all along (even if you have misunderstood), as you are same man who stood by her and continued the marriage..

Remember when a women makes allegations and cries the world believes her, so you can fight back by EVIDENCES as that only matters in the court of law....baaki sab maine nahi rakhta...

All the Best !!!

(Guest)

Hi All ,

Thanks for your Valuable Suggessation. Now she is not agreed to come to me as 17th aug she

has to travel. Her Parents is playing politics and saying that we didn't Call to her that she should come to us.But i know very well they are behind this and doing mentally torcher to me. She is saying she is not intrested at all to talk to me. i decided to sell all the household item and leave alone in hostel. When i asked with her just think about my son and come back for him...as i am too much bother about my son then she is saying she don't have any intrest to come to me....ans she don't have any effect if you sell all house hold items. i don't know what to do. If i put a diverse case against her then it will Strong and in this Case i have to give maintaince Charges to her or I have to wait for her that she should file diverse Case form her Side.Which one will better. Please Suggest me... so that i Can go ahead and procced further.

Note - Iahve voice conversation Proof with her Mother where she is clearly accepting that her Jija did rape with her ... and her mother is denying and saying that your Husband is Wrong.

Thanks in advance !

with Regards,

Raj