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Sameer (System Administrator)     28 November 2013

Need urgent help

Hi All,


I am Sameer Shaikh, I belong to the educated Muslim family and working as an System Administrator in a manufacturing unit in Dhule district based company.  I am a native of Jalgaon and before two and half years ago I got married to Shirin(my wife) who is a duaghter of a farmer in Pachora Taluka Jalgaon.  The issue with us is that.  We was living our life very well until my wife's aunt was dead in February this year (Who brought up her) after that she was lived for some days there and she is misunderstood by her eldest sister.  After that she came back, she was behaving very strangely.  Upon this my mother and I just discussing with her on her behaviour.  she started crying and making scene unnecessarily.  I tried to calm her but she was beyond understanding after that in evening she had taken some her pills and threaten us to suicide.  I never beated or never used any bad words in my 2 years marriage life.  Infact we were living happy but her strange behaviour shocked us.  We then admitted her to the  hospital.  After her discharge her family members came and let her with them telling very lie that you come after 15 days and bring her back with you.  Even after 15 days they weren't responding us.  On this my father called my wife's elder brother he then threatened us.  Even though we go to their home to bring her back.  My wife demanded some unwanted demands on which she wish to  live with me.


1) Nobody should tell her even after she made mistakes.

2) She want to live seperately.

3) Every 8-15 days let me go to my father to meet.

ETC.

there are many lot to say but I am sharing some of this.  One very important thing is that We both have a child.She was then also demanded that I should apologised to her parents then only she will come back to me.Then her uncle threatend me and my father to break our legs we then immediately departed from there.and after that day they never contacted us we tried to convince her but in vain.  Now its 8 months gone but now they threaten us to file a case against us.  Sir please help us as we never face such kind of situation in our life.  I even want to treat her as a wife but she is in her parents misguidance. 

They are doing all this on the basis of my child who is only 1 and half year old. 

Please help me what to do. 

and please suggest me how can I get the custody of my child if she isn't want to live with me.

Can I file case against them.



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Advocate Ashok Kumar (Counsel)     04 December 2013

Hello Sameer,

It is very decent on your part to try and continue living with your wife even after the bad behaviour towards you from her family. I understand that you also have a small child to take care of. The best course of action for you right now is to try and talk to your wife and try to compromise with her and get her to come back to you. If you need, ask the help of a village elder who is respected by both you and your wife's family and who can help in mediating between you. If this does not work, then you have the option of filing a petition in court for restitution of conjugal rights, where the court can order your wife to come back and live with you. This is a purely legal remedy and you will need the help of a good lawyer to draft the petition and present it in court. If you send me your contact number, then we can discuss what other options are available to you, both informally and legally. Also, you can send me a mail at info@lawkonect.com if there are any more details you would like to share about your situation.

Regards,

Advocate Ashok Kumar; www.lawkonect.com


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