Hi all, My wife not staying with me since last 15 month.. I filed RCR and send letter to join with me.. After that my FIL sent a letter that I gave physical and mental torture.. In this separation period few small issue came, but that thing he did not mentioned and he shows finger to me.. So far no 498 or DV case, but cannot be ignored and may be a soon will be member of such fighting family.. Now My FIL after such a long history, he is calling to his house for discussion.. But counselor lady suggested that, better get AB first and then go to their house.. she suggested that she will give a letter from court through which my advocate apply AB from high court... But my advocate saying that after filing the 498 case only we an able to apply for AB... Only threading letter by registered post will not work for getting AB from high court.. So in such case can you suggest that, what counsellor telling, based on that can I seek AB from high court or must be after filing 498 case only, it will possible? Please suggets me in this regards..