Dear Sir,
I am highly obliged with your replies. Yes, I am the scapegoat in the entire case. My husband's mentality is little different and he follows Ramuism (Ram Gopal Varma-Filmi Director). He thinks that in this materialistic world only his happiness is important. He married me 27 yrs ago and after my pregnancy, he fell in love with a Nurse who is very much obedient and submissive to him and initially knowingly I accepted their relationship. After she left, again for the second time, he fell in love with another nurse by the same reason of being submissive.
He made me just the manager of his house and children. I was made alone throughout the years. I have even lost my golden career because of him. Now after facing all these hurdles, he again wanted to invite a fourth woman for marraige by giving me divorce. He was pressurizing me day and night for it. He says he will sack everything for this divorce and he promises to take care of childrens studies. He wants me to keep N number of clauses if I want. He assures me that he will fulfil everything. He was die hard about the new instance( New Partner) in life.
Now, what should I do? I cant reveal this to anyone( family as well as society) becoz of prestige issue. I cant make my kids suffer. They both joined MBBS recently. How to change his adamancy and stop this divorce threat? For a moment, If I think about his happiness, I wanted to give him divorce and keep a solely clause to keep it a secret forever.
I cant keep complaint on him anytime again for the fear of society either way. what are the possible solutions for me to escape this threat without hurting each other? What do I lose if I go offensive against him? What do I lose if I give him a mutual for his own happiness?