Dear All...
I m married male and hve one daughter of 12 yrs age. my marige year is 1995 and love marriage.presently i m having extremly serious conflict with my wife.She is a teacher in school since last 17 yrs.WE are having conflicts sice last 10 yrs and because of my efforts our marriage survived till date.This is strange but the fact.
MY in FATHER-IN-LAW 7 MOTHER-IN-LAW continuously interfereing in my marriage life and due to thier wrong advices my wife dosent get settled in our relaiton ship.WE are stying seperatly from my parents from the date of our marriage.MY wife has always created the problems in view to realtion ship with my parents and my sister who is married since last 14 yrs.MY parents and sister is not allowed to my home for lunch or dinner even at the time of festivals as she believes that in laws should be stayed away from our home.IN fact my parents and sister has never interfered in our marrigae life and never asked any typical information regarding our life.
IN year 2004 I have shifted to new house with help of my father .My father has helped to buy this house by giving me RS.05 LACS from his hard earned money just with a view that we can stay in a good house.
Her father and mother has constantly given her a wrong advices for relation with my parents and my sister.They have also tried my daughter to feed with a wrong and down graded information regarding me,my paresnt and my sister since last 02 years.My daughter has asked me once on this information whether this is true ,and at that time i came to know that they feeding my daughter also with such kind of poor information.
I am totaly broke up after hearing all this from my daughter and i have explained everyhting to my daughter. My daughter is also seeing everyhting and understanding everything about her mother's poor mentality for me,my parents and my sister so she has started opposing her mothe and nana/nani by saying the truth which i have explained her.
After this oppsing from daughter now my wife started harrasing her and thretning her saying that dont involve with your father and dada/dadi.My daughter is scared of her too much and she crying in fromt of me many times that pl.save from her. I m working in a pvt firm and my i m leaving my hone by 9 am and come back to home by 7.30 pm. My daughter come back from school by 4.30 pm and my wife come back from school by 6 pm. so between 6 to 7.30 pm she is threatning my daughter in multiple ways.
DUE TO ALL THIS NONSENSE BY MY WIFE ME AND MY DAUGHTER STAYING IN A SEPERATE ROOM. I M HAVING 03 BED ROOM BUNGLOW. JUST BEFORE TWO DAYS SHE HAS TOLD MY DAUGHTER THAT YOU SHOULD NOT STAY WITH YOUR FATHER AS HE MAY RAPE YOU.I WAS TOTALY BLANKED WHEN MY DAUGHTER HAS TOLD ME THIS CHEAPEST COMMENT GIVEN BY MY WIFE.
I have told her that why are you hearrasin our 12 yrs daughter by saying all this non sense constantly? I feel that she wanted a break up of relation ship between me and my daughter as her final aim is to stay withour any responsibility and duties for my parents and my sister.
I hvae asked her for divorse if she is not ready to fullfill basic duties and reponsibilites for me,my daughter and my parents.SHE has told me that i will never give you divorce and i will stay here only and i will do what ever i like. WE are not having any s*xual relation shipe since last two years. I have also told her that i dont want to disturb our daughter and for the sake of our daughter we can stay seperatly so we can stay peacefully. SHE told me that you can get out this house but i will not allow you to sale this house. MY current house is on joint name ( Me and my wife ). I have offered her RS.35 LACS AS COMPENTATION SO SHE CAN PURCHASE NEW FLAT AND STAY SEPERATLY. My daughter is also fed up with her mother and she is ready to stay with me wherever i decide to stay seperatly from my wife.
I am totaly broken in to pieces with her atitude. SHE is not allowing me and my daughter peacefully. SHE is not even making daily food for me.
YOU are kindly requested to pl.advice me for the folwing points.
[1] how can i sale the house AND stay seperately from my wife.
[2] how can i take the custody of my daughter
[3] how can ui save my parents from any false eligation by her and any complint against them.
PL.HELP ME.
PL.SAVE ME AND MY DAUGHTER ..
JANAK MEHTA
MOBILE NO 09428010037
