please suggest a way out

actually , we both had taken divorce out of our first marriage, i was divorced earlier due to financial problems they were harassing me for more dowery, so i took divorce .i stayed with my ex, only for 2 months and parted away and after 1 year we applied for mutual divorce and got the divorce.My present husband said that he was divorced because his ex had an extra marital relationship with some prerson.

but after marriage i learned from his relatives that actually he had an extra marital relation ship with a lady and had a son out of that relationship and settled it out of court.he than married a post graduate girl keeping her in dark about his past relationship.once she knew this he divorced him.and than we both were married. i came to know all this soon after marriage.not only that before marriage he said that he is a graduate and had a business in which he is arning 1000000/annum.but the fact is he studided till 10th and he did not had any such business.

we had may problem because of his attitude,and i commited for suicide, fortunately my parents who were staying near by rushed me to hospital and i was saved, later i gave birth to 2 daughters.y husbands father used to stay in delhi as he owned some sites there and after 2 years of our marriage he went to delhi stating that some one tried to gab those lands and he should help his father, i was ok with that as ithought he will return after this is resolved but its ben almost 4 years but he never said he will come bak,but he usd to visit us once in 2 months for weeks time.i was working with a corparate copany n i left my job and went to delhi, but again himself and his mother started harrasing me and they sent me to hyderabad after 2 months, n i tired to call him but he never answered any call and after 8 months he sent a legal notive with all sort of false alligations and he also mentioned that i attend late night parties ,booze, smoke and get dropped at home by male collegues, yet he wants to stay with me for the sake of kids,initially i thought iam done with this person but for sake of my parents,kids and society i thought i will stay with him and this person blackmailed me emotionally nmade me sign on some stamp papers which states that i was at fault all the time and will never repeate this.he told me that he actually dont believe in all this but for his parents sake i should sign otherwise he cant take me to delhi.i trusted him and signed the papers and went to delhi,again the same attitude of his and his mother was repeated and this time it was even worse and i was sent back to hyderabd.this person got a divorce drafted by a lawyer and for support he submitted the legal notice,rply i gave, the stamp papers he made me sign,suicide note(actually in that i have mentioned he is not responsable for my suicide attempt, b'coz i dint want to trouble my parents going to police and court,afterall i have left burden of bringing up my 2 kids on them).my husband approached a lawyer and got a divorce petition drafted in november'10, but he did not filed for divorce in any court, but again a week back he asked the same lawyer to fwd. the draft to his mail id and he sent that to his sis. asking her to check, when i asked if he is trying for divorce n if so we can go mutually, Initially he said that he cant live with me n as i always wanted divorce ,so he wants divorce and later after blaming me like his life was ruined because he got married to me and blah blah n blah he said he never filed for divorce nor neither he will do it.