please tell the procedure and time to get divorce 13 1 ia

Hello sir/madam, I got married in 2012 and we applied for mutual divorce within three months. Its been dismissed as the period after marriage is less than an year. I applied for divorce in 2013 December, under 13 1 ia, for which summons are sent to his address. He didn't received the summons and I Dont know his whereabouts. The family court judge asked me to send again. It happened for five times till now. Recently I came to know that my spouse is in UK. I couldn't able to find his address in UK. He too wants divorce. As he need to pay back the dowry taken from me,he is doing like this. The judge isn't allowing me to appoint a lawyer and he isn't not providing the substitute service. He wanted me to get his address. Is there any way to get his address? How long this divorce takes place? What is the procedure I should follow?