Marry a widow/rapevictim/poor women/ invalid person - Does marriage depend on the status of the person or her qualitities?
My view is that instead of marrying that person , the person should be given a helping hand and made self sufficient. Rest will automatically follow. Self sufficiency will increase confidence , self esteem and make the person more attractive in the eyes of the other person. If a person marries out of compassion - it is a emotional decision and the feeling of compassion is likely to wear off. If it doesnt wear off, it is a constant reminder of the weak status of the lady [ which is bad and not conducive to growth/well being and prosperity]
The Chief Justice of India, K.G. Balakrishnan, on Sunday said judges, lawyers and social activists should give “due regard” to the wishes of a rape victim if the latter wishes to marry the offender." - the reason for this is because the future of the lady and probably the unborn child may be have been upper most in the mind of the Judge while making such a statement. I personally know of a case in which i appeared where [ for some time law in the books was laid aside for doing justice by Judges of Bombay High Court. ] After a period - i realise that I was legally right but the Hon'ble JUdges were morally/ethically and wisely right.