I got married in Feb 2015 and got it registered on the same month in a register office in Chennai (Velachery. TN marriage act). All the marriage expenses were shared equally by both me and my father in law. I am an engineer by profession. My wife is a doctor who wanted to do her higher studies for 2 years abroad and hence after staying together for 8 months (till November 18th 2015), she moved abroad. She is supposed to return on Dec 2017 to India to pursue her practice but now she says she wants to continue abroad and wants divorce from me. Our married life was quite normal in India except for occasional disputes (which are not major). Since, she wanted to go abroad, I wanted her to work in only one hospital but she wanted to work in two hospitals and so she joined two hospitals (one during day and the other for 3 to 4 hrs during evenings). Before marriage, I had given information to my father in law that I may also take a break after marriage to pursue my interests and hence I also applied to US universities for my doctorate. Unfortunately I couldn't get funding and hence joined for doctorate in India itself.
My wife's first marriage got stopped due to some religious reasons (her first boyfriend is a christian and she is a Hindu) about which I knew before marriage itself and hence didn't go too much into that detail with her. After marriage, I found a letter in her cupboard when I was cleaning up the place. The letter was written by her another boyfriend (second one about whom I didn't know about before marriage). I was ok about that too because having relationships before marriage is not a big issue according to me. But the problem was that she told she cannot stop interacting with him as they are friends now about which I was not very happy about. But I didn't make it a big issue. After she moved abroad, during one day, i mentioned to her that i dont like her being in touch with her ex boyfriend but i mentioned about it to express my discomfort with that. After a few months, she stopped interacting with me and started pestering for divorce.
My in laws don't know about her second relationship and even I didnt tell them about that still. Her second boyfriend also got married and even his wife is not very comfortable with both of them interacting but they still interact on a regular basis infact she interacts with him much more than with me. Now she also tells that she was forced into this marriage because othewise her parents wouldnt agree for her to go abroad for higher studies.
I am 34 years now and pursuing my studies under the assumption that she will come back to India. Now she tells she doesnt want to live with me and wants to settle down abroad. She even blocked me in whatsapp.
Can i file a cheating case against her in a family court?