Second marriage solution

How did you conclude 2nd marriage will help you?

 

Do you think a lady will marry to to take care of your 1st wife and kids?

 

She may illtreat the 1st wife and your kids also.

 

Just appoint a nurse.

Or you must be having a sister(real or cousin) or a sister-in-law who stays  nearby.Ask her to pay you a vist once a day to handle home matters.

Its unethical to think of second marriage as if your wife became ill that doesnt mean that you remarry you should be supporting her and try that she recover and become normal as before.

Hi G.Janarthanan,

When you are thinking for second marriage, then first make it agreed with your first wife if she is ok.
I can understand in todays tough life everybody needs strong support of take care of each others.

So first make agreement with your fisrt wife and if she is ready for that then take divorse legally to your first wife.
Keep your first wife in your home with taking lifetime full responsisbilty.

Make good understanding to your second wouldbe wife and tell all the story to her and if she is ready then go for second marriage.But remember you need not to forget or ignore your first wife at all.
This is the best way to solve your problems in the open eye of law.

You will be happy to know that the law has negation provisions which fetch scope to save oneself from the clutches of law in such situations when the problems are genuine. The conditions are that your wife and a few of your as also her relatives should not oppose. If you wish to know the exact provisions of law which will safguard you in the second marriage you please contact maanvisushant@gmail.com who are expert specialist in such matters. They will safeguard your interests in second marriage. 

one more question, did you visited her for good doctor for treatment.
Can she be recovered for her memry loss problem ?

@ Janatharan As you yourself confessing that you need a support to overcome obstacles in your life. But as per my opinion i don't think it will help you. How many things you will look after your first wife, ur second wife, ur mother, ur children, ur office or simply yourslf. It is probability that your second wife will ill treat your first beloved wife or show her cruel behaviour to your children and mother and you may become frustated and agitated because of that MAHABHARAT You don't know these women and later you will feel regret. Your first wife can be treated well. Take her to a good psychiatrist.

Yes , I too agree with Shally views.

"It is probability that your second wife will ill treat your first beloved wife or show her cruel behaviour to your children and mother and you may become frustated"

 

So think twice,thrice before you go-head.

This is a problem for which there is no legal solution. As you have not disclosed what you want?

 

You can hire maid/ domestic help for maintenance of home and taking care of mother and wife.

 

If problem is lack of s*x and emotional bonding/ support, I would advise against looking for it outside the marriage. What if you were in the same situation and she would have done the same.

 

Regards,

 

Shonee Kapoor

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