sustaining my marital life

You have been wrongly advice "they asked me to stop talking to for some time so that she would change her mind. ". Once you stop talking its starting of your relations been dead. No relationship survive when communication stop. Try to sort out problem by involving both side elder meeting. Family matters can never solved in court. Once family matters comes in court at last divorce happen. Anyway legally you can file RCR . But be aware it can backfire. She can file 498a or dv case on you and your family. So it will be better if you solve this matter in four walls. If she is not ready to continue relationship then better go MCD. Find someone else. No court no law can force your wife to continue relationship with you. As you say "My whole Intension Is to sustain my marriage". No relationship can survive if only one person wants.

You get an erection and you need to do it, all night long, for that u need to sustain the erection all through the night. Now that is not possible without the other enticing you so that your erection will sustain all night long. In.ur case .. The other party itself is not there, so forget sustaining an erection, there is no chance of getting an erect ion. You can use a tablet by name susten but without the other party what will you do with that stiff erect pillar? Looks awkward isn't it?? Ppl like you take life very lightly. Marriage lighter. Hence ur in this situation. Out of sight, out of mind. Tru love will always be forgiving not ecstasy, she just seems to have enjoyed n left. U can never force a person to love u legally. Waiting will be waste of ur age. How long will you take susten ?? No use. If other party is ready for MCD, just agree to it. Life will be peaceful. Anyways for living together u need willingness. Even for MCD u need Willingness from both. How strange it is, for joining or parting ways u need understanding which is not there in both of you. At best u could have avoided arya samaj party n just booked a lodge room. Enjoyed and parted ways. Now there is only tension tension n some more tension. Ah in Law there is no relief for ur problem. Forget sustain.

You get an erection and you need to do it, all night long, for that u need to sustain the erection all through the night. Now that is not possible without the other enticing you so that your erection will sustain all night long. In.ur case .. The other party itself is not there, so forget sustaining an erection, there is no chance of getting an erect ion. You can use a tablet by name susten but without the other party what will you do with that stiff erect pillar? Looks awkward isn't it?? Ppl like you take life very lightly. Marriage lighter. Hence ur in this situation. Out of sight, out of mind. Tru love will always be forgiving not ecstasy, she just seems to have enjoyed n left. U can never force a person to love u legally. Waiting will be waste of ur age. How long will you take susten ?? No use. If other party is ready for MCD, just agree to it. Life will be peaceful. Anyways for living together u need willingness. Even for MCD u need Willingness from both. How strange it is, for joining or parting ways u need understanding which is not there in both of you. At best u could have avoided arya samaj party n just booked a lodge room. Enjoyed and parted ways. Now there is only tension tension n some more tension. Ah in Law there is no relief for ur problem. Forget sustain. More importantly, marriage is an act done to show the world that ur husband n wife. Secretly marrying is no marrying at all. Why do ppl spend crores on marriage? So that ppl will know that a man n woman are about to join in holy matrimony. Gj reddy spent one crore allegedly on one wedding card of his daughter's marriage. Just imagine how sacred an event a marriage is in our country. U guys really took it lightly. Now sit down calm at least the erection will come down. Forget the girl.

You get an erection and you need to do it, all night long, for that u need to sustain the erection all through the night. Now that is not possible without the other enticing you so that your erection will sustain all night long. In.ur case .. The other party itself is not there, so forget sustaining an erection, there is no chance of getting an erect ion. You can use a tablet by name susten but without the other party what will you do with that stiff erect pillar? Looks awkward isn't it?? Ppl like you take life very lightly. Marriage lighter. Hence ur in this situation. Out of sight, out of mind. Tru love will always be forgiving not ecstasy, she just seems to have enjoyed n left. U can never force a person to love u legally. Waiting will be waste of ur age. How long will you take susten ?? No use. If other party is ready for MCD, just agree to it. Life will be peaceful. Anyways for living together u need willingness. Even for MCD u need Willingness from both. How strange it is, for joining or parting ways u need understanding which is not there in both of you. At best u could have avoided arya samaj party n just booked a lodge room. Enjoyed and parted ways. Now there is only tension tension n some more tension. Ah in Law there is no relief for ur problem. Forget sustain. More importantly, marriage is an act done to show the world that ur husband n wife. Secretly marrying is no marrying at all. Why do ppl spend crores on marriage? So that ppl will know that a man n woman are about to join in holy matrimony. Gj reddy spent one crore allegedly on one wedding card of his daughter's marriage. Just imagine how sacred an event a marriage is in our country. U guys really took it lightly. Now sit down calm at least the erection will come down. Forget the girl.

Brother if your love is genuine, go there and try to sort out the differences. For filing MCD also another 6 months is required to fulfill the mandatory requirement of one year post marriage. So in the mean time please do what you can and wants to save your marriage amicably and diplomatically like a truce-maker or ambassador. And she with her parents living in U.S.A. so threat of false cases is less on you. If you can not afford to go there personally, you can file RCR court, by which you will get a chance to talk with her during court mediation or outside the court hall when ever she comes to court.