Thinking of divorce - 6months of marriage

Adiya, I do not need any advices from you, please stop posting one. 

There are differences in opinions and small fights in each and every family. I think u can handle the situation intelligently with love. When ur husb is angry at that time he may be talking unnecessary things so its better to avoid provoking him. I dont think that u need divorce for ur these issues. You both can maintain a joint account if there is a difference reg money. But money is not so important that for this u need divorce. Just analyse the real issues and discuss cooly with ur husb that why u both fight. If we can manage friendship with many odd situations also then why husb - wife relationship has become so sensitive that we think for divorce after 3-4 years of companionship. Its my suggestion.

you said men wants to dominate, and women is compromised. thats not true. both of them want to dominate, but some has to compromise because they loosers.
i will say why the hell women is compromissing, why she don't work hard and earn his own bread and then become independent and dominate. i will clap loud for such a women.
ofcourse no men will let women dominate when she doing nothing but screaming and laughing like fools, wasting men money on shopping whole day. housewifes often feel proud for little work they do in house, and often backed up in indian movies or tv serials which show women is best, and men cannot handle that job. but thats not true, a professional men in that field can beat 20 women of upper middle class hours. its my bet, i live alone in a room on rent, i cook to wash my clothes and all basic stuff , i can beat 10 women. what they do is nothing. except some professional women who are really hard working and you will be glad to know, they do contract marriage and contract marriage not only work for partners. it do for there kids too, which are mostly send to prestigious hostels away from parents at early age of 1-2 years, this practise is most common in isreal,us,uk,japan, so they never face crimes by parents like s*xual harrasmant ( tomorrow only in india as father was locked with her 3 years old daughter for 5 hours, when wife suspect him and taken daugher to baptist, he got confirmed of attempt to rape) , selling there childs ( today toi reported 16 years girl sold for 10 k by parents), compromising is the biggest crime which they face whole life in terms of money, decisions, etc, and many other crimes such as honour killing and criticism etc are there too. 
I REQUEST YOU DON'T PRODUCE CHILDRENS, OTHERWISE SICK AND CONFUSED PEOPLE LIKE YOU WILL RUIN THERE LIFE TOO, YOU ARE 28 WHAT KIND OF HUMAN YOU ARE, YOU STILL A APE, MONKEY MIND. YOU CANNOT CONTROL YOURSELF , YOU WILL SURELY FAIL IN CONTROLLING KIDS TOO. AND LET ME TELL YOU FUTURE, YOU KID BOY MAY BE WILL RUN IN CLASS 9 AFTER GETTING BEATEN BY HIS FATHER AND RUN TO MUMBAI HAHA, OR WILL AXE HIS FATHER OR MOTHER ONE DAY WHEN HIS LOST HE TEMPER. GOOD DAY.


 YOU LOOKING FOR GOOD HUSBAND , THERE ARE MANY WILLING TO PAY 50% OF THE WHOLE EXPENSES OF THE CHILD UPTO 25 YEARS,  BUT THE THING IS THAT CAN WOMEN CONTRIBUTE THE OTHER 50% FOR THERE COMMON CHILD. NO, THEY DON'T HAVE MONEY FOR THEMSELF, HOW CAN THEY PAY OTHERS. 
STOP TAKING ALIMONY AND PALIMONY WOMEN, THIS IS SICK.  CHIVARY THING IS GONNA END SOON.  YOU BUY DIMOND RING!!! , BUY WITH YOU OWN MONEY. YOU WANNA GO ON A DATE, WHY NOT YOU SHARE THE BILL THERE. YOU DO SEX AND ENJOY IT, WHO WILL PAY THE HALF PRICE OF BIRTH CONTROL USED THERE.

women : make me your nominy, honey.
men : na, you may try to kill me for my money, if i did that. so incase of my death, all my money goes to this good ngo who take care of orphans.

women : can we live together honey , in your house?
men : sure, but it will cost you some rs per month.

women : honey, can  i borrow you car please?
men : o take it, and pay me 4 rs per km, + damages if any.

women : honey, i wanna use your laptop what's the password?
men : oh you can buy it for 20 k only and its all yours.

women : may be today we should share, restaurant bill.
men : for today, we will do everyday. i have written down everything for previous days, see here it.you owe me 67,432 from our first date.

women : (after having s*x) , ok honey i gotta go now
men : condoms + viagra costs =500 , you owe me = 250.

thats right guys, this is how it supposed to be. don't show chivalry anymore. time to kick this b*tches. 
cheers for boys.
i proudly take oath today :" i want s*x, you want that too , ok we can do it then. but don't think i will pay you for that. you don't want that, no problem, i whack off with mirandaa kerr or katrina kaiff in most s*xy poses right in my mind, or how about i buy a s*x robo , i can also rent it too.  :)

I suggest very frankly.

Your marriage is at rocks.  A man after two and half years courtship, goes for love marriage and within 6 months raises his hand against his wife, abuses her and says that is his house (instead of their house) is not going to be reformed by marriage counselling.  Next time if he raises his hand, tell him that you will put him behind the bars by calling police.  He is doing domestic violence and he is liable to be punished as per law.  Any how, you go for divorce, you file petition seeking exemption of one year period on the ground of extreme hardship.  The mediation will take place in divorce petition.  There you come out without shy how he mentally and physically abusing you.  I am quite sure he is not going to be reformed and mediation will fail.  If he is not interested to give divorce by mutual understanding, the contested divorce case will run two to three years.  Even in his next marriage also he is  not going to be  reformed.  Some scoundrels are there, who do not feel shy to physically abuse their wives.  Even though your divorce will hurt you and your family immediately, soon you severe your relationship with him, better you will be.  It is unfortunate you have picked up a rotten apple.  Do not feel guilty for anything which happened in your life.  Next time, take extreme care while choosing the right partner.

First consult to your heart than your Husband.

Consult to each other with cool mind.

Find out which difficulties are root of your fight.

your mutual consult will solve your problem.

don't think for any legal actin at this stage.

you can also involve your family members to resolve the issue amicably..