thread expecting from in-laws

my name is mohammed i am wrking abroad from last 3 years 1 and half year back i got married every thing was going well but during this peroid i notice some mantel realted problem in wife which effect day to day house affair life forget soon and she also not good in islamic values but any way she lestion to me and my family member after some we got a call for my in laws that her father got heart attack and my dad take her to her native were she was there for 1 month but when i call her saying that now its time for u to come back coz i am coming on vacation but she refuse to come even on my many request i made nor she told me why she is doing like this any way i went to india thinking may be is normal issue but even when i am there she dint come when my dad spoke to my brother in law that live her hear soo that husband and wife can spent there good time they refuse to come (i remember that when i am in abroad i spoke to her to know what the problem from that call i come to know from her that if i need her i need to stay my whole vacation with her in her home well how i can leave my parrants in my native and how i can spent my vacation even though she is my wife but still my parants too going to see me after 7 months ) ...i finish my whole vacation with out my wife its ok when i fly back to my work my grand father spoke to my mother in law about there problem why they did like this in that mean time my brother in law toke the phone and used abuase words with him and state that if me(mohammed) is in dubai i will put on him 25lkhs(falas dowry case) case and pull be back to india i need ur help to know how i can safe gard my job my parants and all my realitives and my self soo plz guide me soo that i can work pease full in this issue