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I had given petition on domestic violence 7 months ago.In police counselling husband agreed to mend his behaviour and go well there onwards.but police asked me to stay in my mothers home till next day morning and then get back.
But he started played foul game, by keeping house locked or telling that he doesnot stay in his mothers house anymore.
There must be something wrong in your marriage. Nobody does not behave like this without any cause. There should be cause of action. You went ahead and lodged DV complaint, there should have been a cause for that, likewise, for your husband to lock up the house and say that he is not living there should be some cause. Remember, it takes two to tango. Try to find out why your husband does not want you back.
My opinion would be: You lodging police complaint against your husband itself would have pissed your husband off and does not want you back anymore. Domestic violence, beating you into pulp I do not support, but why domestic violence has happnd that should be looked into, remember it takes two hands to make a clap sound. You too should have done something that he became physically or verbally abusive. If there is not fault of yours then too if his behaviour is abusive one, then its better to take divorce and move on in life rather than trying to mend him using the harsher means of law. Remember one thing, what can be done with love and affection you cannot achieve using police force and law force.
When i tried to enter along with common relatives,
This amounts to goondaism, taking a bunch of people and trying to enter into your inlaws house is nothing but hoogalism, such should not have been the approach, you should have aproached your husband and talked to him on one-on-one basis !
for mediation ,his mother called police and she had well in advance had already given complaint that we are threatning her ,attempting to kill her ,i left home without informing them,harassing with 498 case,asking more money etc.(all bullsh*t).Police asked us to vacate her place as she has asked for protection.And police asked us to settle anything in family court but should not come to her home.
As expectedd. You go with ten goons or ten relatives for talk with a lady ie your MIL, what will she do? You will try to forcibly take you back, what your MIL has done is absolutely correct.
My husband went absconding since 1 month saying the house is in his mothers name and he is homeless and staying in friends house.
You give DV complaint, ask him to come to police station, you barge in to his mother's place with 10-20 ppl what would the poor fellow do? He was bound to run away.
But recently he has come back and staying with his mother.Since he has switched his mobile off,there has been no way to contact him.
I learnt his mother is out on tour for several days and he is staying alone at his mothers home now.
So what do you plan to do now? Again barge in with help of 20 goons and police?
What would be the implications if i enter his house now?will that account to any legal action from police as they have asked me not to come there,and settle things in family court?
If you go again there to barge in, you and your band baaja will sit behind bars, when you have ten ways to dance like this, your husband and your MIL too have 20 ways to escape.
And as i know him,he is very goood emotional blackmailer,who always used tactises like attempting suicide,to gain sympathy .Chances are there he can do the same if i enter his house.Will it cause any problem to me legally?
You definitely will be in trouble lady. Either go to court, prove domestic violence, let him sit behind bars for 7 years. If you do not prove domestic violence, your husband can make you go behind bars and sit there for a good 7 years for lying under oath in court of law. Either ways your marriage would stand as over n out !.
should i give petition in police station that i m entering his mothers home,as last stay for both of us was the same,and he is staying there right now alone,and i have rights to stay with him,anything goes weired i would not be held responsible as his attitude is of that kind?
Where is the bl**dy love and affection am not able to get, you talk law, police, relatives, barging into someone else's property, etc but not an aorta of love and affection. You dont seem to be the decent type. You know how to make halla gulla, and so you are facing the music. I pray that Lord Krishna give you some brains and let manmatha raja poke you with his cupid arrow so that you become lovelorn and seduce your husband, make love day and night and forget all indifferences between you both.
If he misses his shot, then there is Court, your goons, the police etc Happy fighting !
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