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Navaneetha Krishnan (engineer)     16 July 2013

Unconsummated marriage

Hi,

       Mine was an arranged marriaged happend 4 months ago.From the beggining wife starts troubling and not able to adjust with the family members and always find faults on silly things.To add to this she says mentioned me only after understanding fully she will even allow to touch me.Their parents are  also warned myself of this and always telling like you should go for child only after certain period of time.Even though i did not make proper move i see that she is clearly not even allowing me to touch her.She always thinks us as cheap and not able to adjust to family she moved to her parents place 2 months bac.Now Parents side is telling only  i did not make the move i only said like after some time only i will consummate the marriage and creating all false stories and also that we wont send the girl as we are afraid he will do the things by force now.We are strongly suspecting something wrong with the girl physically or mentally right from the beggining but when i asked her to take for doctor even when he had fever she refused to come with me.Kindly advise me how should i take from here.As they are calling for mediation but started false propaganda now....



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Navaneetha Krishnan (engineer)     20 July 2013

Hi Experts Pls respond.Mine is a case of desertion by wife within 3 months of marriage and marriage not being consummated as she wants to put an pretense of understanding.I clearly mentioned this cannot go for ever she then deserted me..and now coming up with false allegations on me and my family.Can i file for annulment her.So far i have some mails between us back and forth in which she accused me and my parents of petty things and i responded back.Does these mails acts as a proof of non consummation of marriage???How else we can prove...


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Originally posted by : Hari

Hi Experts Pls respond.Mine is a case of desertion by wife within 3 months of marriage and marriage not being consummated as she wants to put an pretense of understanding.I clearly mentioned this cannot go for ever she then deserted me..and now coming up with false allegations on me and my family.Can i file for annulment her.So far i have some mails between us back and forth in which she accused me and my parents of petty things and i responded back.Does these mails acts as a proof of non consummation of marriage???How else we can prove...


Go for annulment or not, you have to apply for divorce to get the marriage cancelled. As without you getting divorce decree, it would be crime for you and your wife to remarry again, to respective future prospects. Just petty allegations do not amount to cruelty meted out to you. Such e-mails wont help you.

Navaneetha Krishnan (engineer)     23 July 2013

Hi Helping Hand,

                                  I am totally confused.Why when we go for annulment we have to go for divorce as well.Also the mail is not as a proof as cruelty but she has agreed that marriage is not consummate and will be only after understanding.The lawyer suggested us that we Send a legal notice first so that it would act as proof incase they retaliate in future.Kindly adivse if legal notice is a good option as it is 3 months since she left the matrimonial home...


(Guest)
Originally posted by : Hari

Hi Helping Hand,

                                  I am totally confused.Why when we go for annulment we have to go for divorce as well.Also the mail is not as a proof as cruelty but she has agreed that marriage is not consummate and will be only after understanding.The lawyer suggested us that we Send a legal notice first so that it would act as proof incase they retaliate in future.Kindly adivse if legal notice is a good option as it is 3 months since she left the matrimonial home...

Send legal notice.


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