as counselling sessions were going on in the mediation cell ,boy was neither saying yes to take me back nor saying no that he don't want me back but just asking for more dates although prior to this already 7-8 counselling were done in all this he was just asking for more time. in the last counselling he was again asking for 1 month time and when i said why he needs more time because in this counselling process already 6 months are wasted but no solution because boy's family already decided not to take me back as now i can't give them flat and more money as they get to know that the money given to them in cash i.e. 25 cash was taken on loan from relatives and family members PPF and FDR's and so given to them on marriage. and we are not in position to give more to buy flat or cash so they decided to throw me out of house.
one thing i would like to know that during our counselling he says he is in fear that if girl commit suicide in future then next time he would be responsible so i should write that if i died that for that he would not be made responsible and i should me made responsible for own death. and in this mediator supports him. although i denied to give him in written because this shows that already negative thinking of my death is going on his mind. one persons who take her wife and treat her well then who girl would suicide.. actually this thing he is saying to give in written from the very first counselling.although in last counselling session it has been mentioned failed as everybody knows that boy is just wasting time.
now question is in front of judge can he make such excuses and cannot come to conclusion and can waste time like this... or infront of judge he has to say yes or no??? because boy's family is just wasting time and publically they are putting wrong allegations on my character......and saying to people tell her to give divorce otherwise he and his family said that i'm characterless and if that can't happened then he will kill my family and this type of dhamkis he was even giving infront of mediator but mediator said nothing to him..
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