S.Suchitra's views are found to be good to follow; being a Divorce case, one is more systamatised accuser than the other, and both having and /or creaing doubts/reciprocal /counter allegations on the other,it is better to avoid visiting the other party individually where you may not have much confidence and support;I feel you may take Hon'ble Court's direction in the matter and have recourse to Child's care in alternative period , some time with you and some time with your going to be divorced wife; always try to avoid controversial debate or dialouge,as you may not be not be knowing if they are taped or video recorded;