I got married on the 21 January 2011.I’m a muslim. It was a love cum arranged marriage. My wife and me from Hyderabad 4 Km distance to each other….
About my family…. my Father is no more and he was Employed at HAL as Supervisor and my Mother Retired Headmistress in a Govt School and we are 4 siblings My Elder Sisiter got Married in 2008 and she stay at 150 Km away from our house and my self I’m a MBA Finance and was working as Sales Manager with ING Vysya Life Insurance and left the job due to mental torture from my wife and my Inlaws left job in Feb 2011 and my younger sister is a student pursuing her MCA and my younger brother stays at Bangalore working in a company and stay in a Hostel..
My wife had a psychological problem, thinking everybody was against her. In personal life she thinks that me and my family against her, One day she left for her parents house on 16/04/2011 without informing to attain function we thought she will come after spending some time with her parents but, again on 20/04/2011 she came back home in my absence with her Parents, brother and 2 maternal Uncles to take away all her Jewellery, valuables, and some other articles it was very well planned and threaten and abuse my mother and younger sister, that our family is not suitable and will file a Dowry harassment case under section 498a/34/4&6 IPC against my Family…
She took away all the jewellery and she locked Almariah and all valuable taken with her all has happen in my absence in noon when I was in office, but my mother and sister saw that she has taken her jewellery along with her. She is saying that she has not taken any thing with her which is a false statement….as our neighbours also convinced them not to do all and lets sit and solve this issue as I was not at home, but my mother in laws were arrogant in nature and my father in law is in police Dept. he done with his influence all this well planned…
She finally filed the false case on 07/05/2011 498-A-IPC,34-IPC,4-DPA,6-DPA against me and my family, saying that me and my family used to torture her for dowry. My wife and her family are misusing this law., she want money so she filed a false case to incurred the expenses which has occurred during her marriage.
My wife has filed 498-A-IPC,34-IPC,4-DPA,6 case on 07/05/2011 and I surrender my self on 16/05/2011, court gave me bail on 18/05/2011
She even went to my elder sister’s house along with lady police to arrest her stating that she also tortured her in so many ways .My sister has attended my marriage and used to harrass her .In between in three months she never came to Hyderabad, but even though she filed a false case on her stating that she also tortured her. It was so embarrassing moment for my sister in front of her in laws. We never took a single penny from her or her family but she made a false list of items saying I have kept those items with me. She hardly stayed in Sasuraal for 3month. She used to threaten and abuse my family without any reason. My wife had told me many times that she would pull me and everyone in my family to the court. She said she won’t come until I had apologized to her father for to keep her seprate and no mistake of mine. Then I told her I won’t do that.
That was the time when I realized life wasn’t possible with her.
She is now asking me to stay with her near by her parent’s house I have responsibilities If I fail to do this my in-laws are threatening me and harassing me and even she state that her father is in police ,If I wont come back and stay along with her she will file four(4) more cases against me and family which will mess our life and I feel danger to my life from my in-laws. Please save me I have not done anything wrong but she is after my life and my family.
Once she was too bad with her misbehavior with me and my parents. When I protested she called her parents. Her mother called me and used all the slain words for me, my sister and my mother .Her mother and her father used all abusing language , he had abused me so much .I had not led a life the way his daughter wanted. Should I say I was so great or a coward when I didn’t retaliate.But the fact is the law 498A which scares every dignified family. Pls. save me…..by ur valueable advise???