Divorce and child custody

Seema. Do share the documents related to the matter and RCR copy @ scclegal@gmail.com. Do give me an elaborate descripttion of the matter citing the date of marriage, date of starting of seperation, child's birth date, his behaviour/ both's occupation etc. I will suggest you accordingly. As the matter is sub-judice commenting on the same in public websites shall not be very legal and valid. Adv Ashish Singhal

Seema, I believe if you don't want to go back, you could tell the court that you do not want to join him back. I am not sure if I did get your question properly. The issue as you narrate and I read is, you don't want to join your husband neither he wants to have you come back (as per your opinion) but since he has filed RCR to have the court look into the matter and save his breaking marriage you have to respond. If you really don't want to go back, you can clearly state so. I do not see how a smart lawyer could do something different in this case. anoone having different opinion(s) would help me as well.

Hi Seema you dont have to worry as in RCR case it is your decision no one can force you  .

if you dont want to go back you can file a divorce case 

Mahesh I am with you 

@ Seema ji

 

You said your husband is a lawyer!!

 

First thing....pls ensure your query is not being replied by your husband on LCI!!!..................Just joking.

 

I am going to send you a PM also. kindly read that also.

 

I wud immediately suggest to patch-up for your kid. its good for you both. other options are like a 'oasis' unless you look and perceive 'divorce' and 'relief' & 'remedy' only.

 

First clarify what you want.

I reckon ..............you want

1. Divorce (that too quickly...from a lawyer huddy ........Oops!)
2. Maintenance for u and your girl kid
3. Fin. support and expenses for your kids edu amd marriage etc.
4. Alimony for you
5. Custody of child
6. Also full guardianship of child along with custodianship of your child
7. Alimony
8. Also I reckon .....You want to win divorce and not get slapped onto you!!

 

I wud immediately suggest to patch-up for your kid. its good for you both (u and ur spouse) and in fact all three of u as well as all your relatives also. other options are like a 'oasis' unless you look and perceive 'divorce' as a 'relief' & 'remedy' only.

I am a working women. i want to divorce him and want the custody of the child.my husband is not a lawyer.

He has filed RCR not to get me back but to save himself from 498a and not to give maintainence and alimony.

he is trying to show that he is good in front of the law.

Last time i agreed to go back he put conditions that shows he is not bothered that i come back.

If he has filed RCR then why on earth he is trying to collect evidence against me... simple isnt it.

He has allged that i have extra marital relationship with a guy.

Do we need to have a second opinion here.

rgds,

sl

Opps... i forgot to thanks...all of you..

Thanks ashish, mahesh, dinesh and jamai for your response.

 

As i have clearly mentioned that we both wanna divorce each other but at the same time we need the custody of the child.

So is the joint custody a good option.

can anyone tell me what will be the pros and cons of the joint custody.

 

rgds,

SL

@ M D Rajput....

 

You have posted your text something like 'tenant's right on land owned by somebody else  (in malad, mumbai)' in atleast 6 topics under 'family law' forum ........and that too as a reply to someone else's topic on family law related issue.
 

 

Why can't you restrict your post/reply etc  under appropriate forum only?

 

You are a real  intruder in 'Family law' forum................

 

SRA is (slum rehab. authority)

 

Aap nahi sudharoge...................

 

The way you have intruded in the wrong forums with your own personal agenda..............

 

That is sufficient to suggest what kind of intruder you are...........................

 

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