Hello all,
I am presently residing in delhi and have a big time query. Well let me tell about our relation first. i have a problem that i belongs to schedule caste family and my wife is pandit. Its a love marriage after 4 years of relationship. Well she didnt knew about my caste. when we decided to get married then i told her about the same.though she dont have so many problem in the beganing but suddenly from past 1 month she started behave strange and dont want to go to my parents house as her family does not want her to go to my house and they dont want her to meet my family. they even somewhere dont me to go to my parents also. its getting increased day by day. My wife go to her house on every second day. they want me to follow them and live according to them. I work in good company and i have settled house. there is no problem but i feels that its getting worse day by day and proving me wrong for everything which i cannot bare. Recently i got a option to work in kenya which is good for our future. but my wife wants me to ask her parents first that i should go or not. and if they said no then they said you go and once you are settled then let us know. I mean i cannot even take my own decisions. My family has no problem with her but she never accepted them as a family. whenver she go to my parents house she started feeling sick. Now even my mom know about that she is going to get sick. but my parents never tell her anything about that they just share things with me and my sister. Can somebody help in this. what should i do or what i can do in this situation. I cannot live like this. my parents never interfere in our life they are always supportive for me and my wife. but she never thhinks about the same she do watever her parents tell her...she does not respect our relation etc.
