354D guy submitted application that I am threatening him
Laxmi
(Querist) 11 September 2017
This query is : Resolved
Hi everyone. My name is Laxmi. One year August 2016 back I filled FIR to my friend taken of my father and mother as witness that he stalking and saying I love you reply me else will send your pics to mom dad. I did because he wanted to tell my parents regarding our relationship. After FIR we ended he got arrested and got bail. I felt bad what he did. He didn't crossed he had our conversation but police. After two month Oct 16 We started talking by message because I miss him a lot. Meet him many time. I requested him to say his dad and ask my parents to withdraw case. But time gone. He become involved alot. One month back he stopped talking. He said he will show our evidence to police. He has my text message. Like miss u I wanna marry you. Even call records also. I think he is giving application to police that I am threatening him. I want good suggestions what to do? Can I do FIR again? But I don't have proof what should I do? I wanna defend myself. My parents don't know about it. I want to do FIR or safe side.? I called him we meet but he refused to take incitive
Adv. Yogen Kakade
(Expert) 11 September 2017
It is clear that you did not learn any lesson from your past experience. If he wishes to go against you with justified evidences that you have filed false case against him, then you shall be in trouble. Try amicable settlement.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 11 September 2017
Law does not move whether you feel bad or good, you filed case against him, it was your mistake to leave such proofs with him.
Try to have amicable settlement. if not possible, talk to your lawyer if he takes any step.
P. Venu
(Expert) 11 September 2017
Obviously, you are trying to make wrong use of the Law. in order to have some fun. Now you are trying the same experiment with this forum also.
Earlier also, you had made the same posting and had received some suggestions.
Guest
(Expert) 11 September 2017
Did you file FIR against the stalker without the knowledge of your parents?
Kumar Doab
(Expert) 11 September 2017
Strange;
Author has posted;
"My name is Laxmi. One year August 2016 back I filled FIR to my friend taken of my
father and mother as witness..............."
Laxmi
(Querist) 12 September 2017
Parents don't know the truth. They supported me. They know half truth. Someone suggested that I should say to police he Blackmail me.. This is my first post. I wanted what should I say. I want settlement... I sent message like I will kill you. Can that make me trouble? How can defend it?
Guest
(Expert) 12 September 2017
Your parents should not be kept in dark. You must muster courage to make them aware of the truth to make them mentally ready to stand by you, rather than feel ashamed, if they come to know the facts later, or if the boy brings the truth to their knowledge.
R Trivedi
(Expert) 12 September 2017
Actually in the other thread she was incorrectly advised by someone to file a case of Blackmail against him. Listen Ms. Laxmi, you have put into grave trouble both you as well as that boy. Talk to your elders and some senior respectable advocate and get out of it amicably. Do not make a mistake of filing any further case. You are equally to be blamed for this mess. In fact your acts are less respectable than that boy. So please involve elders and avoid police etc as much as possible. 354D is very difficult on that boy, now he has amassed the defence evidence, so talk to advocate, he will get you out without any legal harm to you. He will try that you don't get stuck in filing false criminal case.
Laxmi
(Querist) 12 September 2017
Thank you everyone. That boy not picking my calls. One of my friend saying they r going to help him as witness. And he submitted application to local police. That I am threatening him and I said I misused law by text. He has call recording. I feel to ashamed. But how can I tell my father. Yesterday I got call from police they said meet at police station. I should be ready to take action
P. Venu
(Expert) 12 September 2017
Ms. Laxmi: You need counselling than any legal advise.
Guest
(Expert) 12 September 2017
Mr. P Venu has rightly advised. Misuse of law can sometimes bounce back very harshly.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 12 September 2017
You should keep your parents in confidence. Defend the case against you if filed by them.
Try for amicable settlement.
Dr J C Vashista
(Expert) 13 September 2017
Well advised by experts, I endorse.
Nothing more to add except to find out an amicable settlement with the boy or face music of law/ i.e., consequences for filing false and frivolous complaint.