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LEGALHELPREQUIRED   03 August 2008 at 22:01

MENATAL HARRASSMENT

I sense a foul play of Divorce trials by my husband and inlaws.

I dont want divorce as I have a son.

I am married since Mar 07, but have been facing mental harrassment since just two months after engagement in August06, to the extent that they wanted to cancel the marriage.

My husband appears to be meek, but he is cool headed and does anything pre-planned.

I am straight forward and speak my heart openly.

He is not interested to stay with me, because he did not like my appearance due to my short hair or glasses(Everything was clear at the time of seeing me for alliance), he did not like my being good at my Academics, good English and earning better than him.

Now oflate, the issues have grown big and I started finding the faults that their family members have done by insulting me at various instances.

For this they say, that I am not obedient as a daughter in law, and that I am mental and hence shout at elders etc.

They did not care about me during my pregnancy, and did not care about the child after his birth, except that they came once and saw us in hospital.

In the 3rd month when my mother asked when they would take me and my son, they said they were going to Kasi, so would see in 5th month. In the mean time I was pleading my husband to come and see us atleast now after the child is born. He denies everytime saying that he would not come if I wanted to see him, but would come only if he wanted to see the child.

For doing annaprasana, they even made me write on a Bond paper that I have insulted my inlaws and husband and hence, I was staying seperately from husband(due to some arguments previously) and that
I am willing to bring my child up at Vijayawada since I am working in Hyderabad. (One of the conditions of my husband that I have to keep the child at Vja), and that they have not taken any amount for any expenses for marriage.
Also that I am writing this with my own interest without any force from anyone.

After that they gave the plea that since I delayed in signing the bond, they cannot take me and child back in 6th month, so we have to wait till 9th month. But they conducted annaprasana on 6th Month 6th day, asking us not to stay in Vja that day, as my son cannot do an overnight stay in 6th month.

Again I started asking my husband to come sometime to see the child as he is already 6months old.
This time he talked rudely, and I said if you not very interested then why did u people make me sign the bond, Pls take life seriously, if you dont want me then you could have gone for a divorce instead of these cheap tricks.

This irritated my husband and he said that he will file for divorce.... and that I have to sign... (Till date they did not send any papers).

In the mean time the arguments with my husband irritated me to the extent that I started talking harshly and he started complaining to his father, and he wrote a letter that I am mad and should be put in mental hospital....

I fear that he is building all these proofs to go against me... Pls help

I dont want divorce... I want my husband and a happy relationship with all the family members.

I only seek the cooperation from the family and request them not to insult me for my appearance. (I am fair, sharp featured etc... to the contrast of my MIL and SIL).

Am I wrong... In expressing my anger at my inlaws for having brought up their son who doesnt show any responsibility towards his wife and son. He did not come to see me even once when I was pregnant (With diabetes). He has never been happy in front of me. He acts silence and non happiness only towards me. Where as when his relatives or friends come, he is a different person.

Even my inlaws have a very good reputation in their family and friends and in the neighbourhood. But no one can believe that they do all sorts of things to prove their son right.

They are creating proofs that I am not good by nature and I dont respect elders...

How do I defend

Sahdev Chaturvedi   03 August 2008 at 19:33

Family dispute

Dear Sir,
Aorund 10 year back we were as a joint family. My father is having five brother including him in his family. they were two got married other three were unmarried. They were decided to distribute the property of unmarried three borthers in between married family. Out of three unmarried uncle two is with my father and one got expired five year back, who has given complete property to uncle family. My one uncle was agreed to give some two acker agreculter land to my younger uncle family. Mean time younger uncle has became impationate two take land by thretening becuse his two sons missguided him some 6 to 7 year back. He has beaten to my uncle 4 times. Now our family relation got crased due to life thretening by them. My uncle is not ready to give him single centimetre of land. We are two brothers of my father and doing good job and serviving our life well. We do not want to wast our time in family querrale as well as land also not be given because his unethical action in family. There is no law to take any leagal action agants him till some thing not big incident will be done by him as expressed by lowers. Can you guide me for any leagal action to safe guards my family members before any undesired happening in my family??. If we are doing Police complaint than in worst scenerio that police are making 107 only. He is regulerly thretenign to our family for life terror. We are having already one case 324 against his both of son in court. I am requesting you please guide me how we cam come out from this without any big losses.
Regaards
Sahdev

arjita   03 August 2008 at 17:12

llb and cs as combination

plz help me in deciding combinations with ll.b.is ll.b and c.s. combination is not working now in corporate side?

yogesh   03 August 2008 at 12:40

ELECTRICITY ACT 2003

I need the opinion on the following query which covers the electricity act-2003

1 Whether the assessing officer/Authorised representative of Licensee company has the power to replace the existing meter of consumer with out testing for accuracy of his existing meter and against the consent of consumer?

2 Can the authorised representative/Assessing officer has the power to replace the existing meter with out giving any notication or with out givingreasonable opportunity of hearing ?

3 Can the licensee insists by compulsion or force to use their prescribed meters only?

yogesh   03 August 2008 at 12:37

QUERY OF C.W.P ON THE FOLLOWING MATTER


ON : 8/1/2008 1:50:38 PM Post New Topic

I has the following query and will be grateful & thankful if i get the expert opinion by the expertise

I have filed the W.P.(Civil) in Hon'ble high court against the company which was given license to supply and distribution of electricity herin after called "licensee" against the notification which was served under section 163 of electricity act-2003 and aginst the replacement of existing meter by the electronic meter

Along with the writ petition, i have also filed the Civil Miscallneous apllication against the stay on disconnection of electricity during the pendency of suit

The writ application was filed in diary but before listing (due to objections in case diary ), the respondent/license managed to change the existing meter with the consent of petitioner under the influence of coercion

The copies of the writ application were already serviced to the standing counsel of the licensee company

What the petioner will now do (as the matter is not heared due to technical objections in the filing )?

Whether another Miscalleneous application needs to filed in case diary or he should wait & watch after the first hearing and let the court know about the facts?

In present scenario , the relief which he has claimed regarding not replacement of meter is not maintainable whether he should file the other application under the same writ application for another relief?

Shekhar   03 August 2008 at 01:12

Condem of high court order

There is a case regarding quashe of FIR, now order on 22-april -2008 from the court to stay on the proceedings till the next date of hearing which was on 8th may 2008 to state as well as to PS & IO, but IO has filed the charge sheet on 2nd of may 2008 then on 8th court has demanded the explanation from the state as well as from the IO " inspite of stay why? charge sheet has been filed, there in reply IO has demanded the unconditional apologies from the court that she(IO) did not notice "Stay"... Pls. give me the advise how to go about it? and can i approach to the junction where the charge sheet has been filed, pls. guide me the way out of this!!!! Thanks, Shekhar

V.Raghavan   02 August 2008 at 23:26

How to set aside the wrong sale?

A mother,her son and daughter executed a sale deed through their power agent in the year 1982 for a house site inherited. after 24 years noticing that the site is still remain unused the daughter and son(since their mother demised) again sold the property to another person suppressing the fact that the land was sold already(by applying duplicate doocument - pretended it is lost) Again it was sold to another person in the year 2008 on by this the original owner (Purchaser from mother, son and daughter) came to know. Now the legal owner should recover the property by setting aside the two saled executed with ill motive. Can the legal owners institute a criminal case suit against all the parties of the property wrongly dealt along with the civil case?

RADHA PYARI SRIPADA   02 August 2008 at 19:50

investment law

whether a stock broker or stock broking company needs to be mandatorily a registered member of any stock exchange?

RADHA PYARI SRIPADA   02 August 2008 at 19:31

recovery of maintenance / arrears of maintenance

In any case where the court orders interim maintenance, when the respondent husband fails to pay the amount of maintenance or arrears of maintenance, then the next course of action is to commit him to the civil prison. In that case, the husband will be sent to prison only if the wife pays beta for his food in prison. In that event, instead of the wife getting maintenance for herself, she has to pay from her pocket to maintain him in the prison. is there any efficacious remedy available for wife in these circumstances?

SRIPRAKASH BHATTACHARYA   02 August 2008 at 19:30

WHETHER SECRETARY OF A CO-OPERATIVE HOUSING SOCIETY CAN DELEGATE HIS POWER OR GIVE A POWER OF ATTORNEY.

DEAR SIRS,
THIS IS A QUESTION REGARDING A CO-OPERATIVE HOUSING SOCIETY IN KOLKATA WHERE THE WEST BENGAL STATE CO-OP. ACTS AND RULES ARE APPLICABLE. HOWEVER,IT MAY KINDLY BE NOTED THAT I FIND THE BASIC CO-OPERATIVE RULES ARE SIMILAR IN ALL THE STATES.IT IS ALSO FOUND THAT CLARIFICATIONS TO SUCH QUESTIONS
ARE NOT AVAILABLE IN THE BOOKS. HENCE THIS QUESTION.

IN CASE OF A CO-OPERATIVE HOUSING SOCITY, SECRETARY OF WHICH IS AN HONORARY POST AND REMAINS BUSY WITH HIS OWN EMPLOYMENT. SINCE, AT THE TIME OF TRANSFER OF FLATS ETC. THE SECRETARY HAS TO BE PRESENT IN THE OFFICE OF THE REGISTRAR OF ASSURANCE FOR PUTTING HIS SIGNATURE ON THE 'DEED OF CONVEYANCE'. DUE TO HIS PREOCCUPATION, IT BECOMES DIFFICULT FOR THE SECRETARY SOMETIMES TO MAKE HIMSELF AVAILABLE AT THE TIME OF SIGNING ON THE DEED OF CONVEYANCE, DUE TO WHICH THE MATTER GETS DELAYED. UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCES, IS IT POSSIBLE THAT THE SECRETARY GIVES A'POWER OF ATTORNEY' TO ONE OF THE DIRECTOR OF THE CO-OPERATIVE HOUSING SOCIETY TO DISCHARGE THE DUTIES OF THE SECRETARY (SIGNING ON THE DEED OF CONVEYANCE FOR AND ON HIS BEHALF)FOR WHICH THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS WILL TAKE A RESOLUTION. ALTERNATIVELY, IS IT POSSIBLE THAT THE BOARD TAKES A RESOLUTION AUTHORISING THE SECRETARY AND ON EDIRECTOR TO DISCHARGE SUCH JOB.

SHALL BE GRATEFUL FOR A CLEAR CLARIFICATION.

Sriprakash Bhattacharya
bhattacharyasriprakash@gmail.com