Cheating
Uday
(Querist) 20 April 2013
This query is : Resolved
Can officer be punished if he is involved in a scene where complaint is not given and incident does not fall under his area of duty..
Example: telephone conversation as evidence where he threatens the person of being booked and he helps the other party to trace residence address with help of mobile number by using his power.
Please provide me an advise.
Thanks & Regards,
Uday
ajay sethi
(Expert) 20 April 2013
academic query . state facts of your case
Uday
(Querist) 20 April 2013
He helped a divorcee women( which i came to know afterwards with abnormal behaviour) who cheated me in the name of love and seeked for help in education in college days, seduced directly and troubled me and family members a lot through phone calls and SMS's. Many telephonic conversations are available for this situation.
Signed on stamp papers to not enter into my personal life but surprisingly spolied marriage.
Resulted in cancellation of marriage and loss of reputation, financial loss.
Please advise me if this is possible to approach court of law.
Thank you,
Uday
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 21 April 2013
giving full facts mean giving facts coherently so that one can understand.
elgin matt
(Expert) 21 April 2013
You will have to give details as to where one is working is it a government department etc.please narrate the incidence clearly.
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 21 April 2013
You are shy in saying but unless you chronologically state the affairs of past with injuries caused to you ,i am sorry,no benevolent advice could reach you.
Uday
(Querist) 21 April 2013
Respected Experts,
Words are less to express my confidence after seeing response from many of them, here is the point to point detail:
During my PG education (2007-09) my classmate took help from me for studies to clear her backlog subjects and project preparations I helped her for the only good reason when she mentioned that she badly needs a degree and job to take care of her parents as she doesn’t have brothers. I was grown in such a way that I hardly speak with girls. Seeing my humbleness and other attitudes she built friendly relationship with me and proposed me several times but I kept on denying saying not to make fun of me and when the she was serious in her behavior I warned that I will tell the nuisance in class to everyone where some of them thought that there was some chemistry running between us.
Till the education was completed she showed up good behavior. I after completing the education got a decent job in MNC through job fairs during the course of time she used to call my mobile and ask about topics for exams and skills for job search, she was staying in hostel for this entire situation as her native was far away. Here was the fatal mistake from me to unknowingly encourage her for having regular touch through calls and emails.
Now again the torcher to accept love proposal begun and I completely avoided her by switching off my phone. She started calling my father and home numbers (numbers which took from common friends) saying that she is colleague of me and wanted to speak as my phone was not working. When the situation was getting worse my parents realized something was wrong with me. Meanwhile I met her as she wanted to return my books which she took for reference to prepare for exams; surprisingly she started seducing me directly through words and messages, feeling something is wrong I asked her some time for acceptance of proposal. In the due time, she mentioned that her parents are trying to get her married and she didn’t like the groom and told that she loves me and I too love her.
I knew that I was not a handsome selection for this and when I asked for further details about her family she kept on speaking and by mistake revealed that she is a divorcee and started pleading me to marry since others are asking huge dowry and she doesn’t want her parents to suffer with one more daughter to be married. I went mad with all these and informed my parents about this situation, since I was already working and coming from a family where importance is given to society and customs they wanted me to get married as the lady was smart and was planning cleverly for future steps.
This time I warned her seriously claiming that I would proceed legally, she was not in touch for many months (during 2011). Meanwhile she cleared backlogs and again started calling me when I didn’t respond she called from several public phones to speak to me and I answered those calls as I was expecting job offers from other areas. I told her not to disturb me as I’m getting married, she started calling my parents and told them that she will take of me and them than no one else. Her cruel behavior started here where she was pleading, speaking affectionately or finally threatening for consequences of not marrying her. When I changed my mobile number she with help of her friend who also claims to be a divorcee called me for mediation, when I questioned as to who gave my number she revealed that she called my home claiming that she was my office colleague and need to speak to me urgently for official purpose my parents who are just literates and not being clever enough gave my new number. In the call itself I warned that lady too that this time I’m going to include her too in legal proceedings, immediately in 10 to 15 minutes another person claimed as police officer called me and threatened me for consequences, (He is the person responsible for giving home addresses of mine and bride by tracing outgoing calls as there is no scope for her to gain these in a span of days’ time).
We had no clue how she came to know my home address and directly entered inside home and started creating panic, all elders and my family members took her to nearby police station and called her parents where the police suggested to compromise as I was getting married and both are working, where the careers will ruin just by attending courts. She signed on stamp papers saying she will not disturb me anymore, next day she went directly to bride’s residence and created nuisance for which marriage got cancelled – May 2011. I tried to gather all college friends to prove my innocence but it was too late.
We were just like dead for a yearlong in society I had to work to repay all the financial losses for broken marriage expenses, my parents lost confidence in me thinking that I was playing game to marry the divorcee women and since then there is no peace in home even a single day. I had to remain calm and listen to them to gain confidence back, this time this lady again called me where the peace in home was lost again. 2012 - marriage was successful but I’m suffering with financial losses and loss of reputation in society ( I could have proceeded legally long back but due to family prestige, lack of financial strength to approach court and my mother worrying for other children getting married I had to shed tears within myself thinking that in these days who will believe boy’s words in such a situation) no doubt she is trapping another one like me where the planning and support is there from her entire family which was seen when they came to police station as representatives). I’m ready to face any consequence but these kinds of people should not be spared where the entire family peace is spoiled with their behavior.
People Involved are her father who is electricity board worker, Brother-in-law who is Govt. school teacher, SI, her friends who helped in the due course.
Please advise me if this case will be accepted and under what all sections in favor and against me.
Sincerely,
Uday
ajay sethi
(Expert) 21 April 2013
you are now married . the lady needs psychiatrist treatment . forget her and move on in life . litigation is long drawn process and it costs lot of money .
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 22 April 2013
You should lodge a complaint to higher police officials of that guy so that a departmental action may be initiated against him and seek a stay order against that lady if she again tries to intervene in your life and also file a suit for damages.
Uday
(Querist) 30 April 2013
Thank you for the valuable advices.
Regards,
Uday
