Urgent guidance needed: family law
Rompalli V.B. Swamy
(Querist) 06 January 2016
This query is : Resolved
its not mine,but my known person's:
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Sir,
I am 25 years old, private employee working in Visakhkapatnam, AP. On 19th March 2014, my Father called up with false intimation that my Grand Ma was sick. But when i have reached there I have realised that they are just called me to fix a marriage with a Worse Scoundrel and un educated and all types of habituated wrong person just because that he is not taking dowry and he has helped my father with Rs. 10000/- during my education. As my mum and dad were emotionally blackmailed that they would end up their lives or they would get bad names if their word of mouth is not fulfilled, i unwillingfully got married to that animal in a Church and instantly it got Marriage Registration Certificate. Except that there were no photos, videos. Soon after marriage both of us kept in room for 10 days where in we supposed to indulge in physical intimacy but i have not at all allowed that guy to touch me as i hate that relationship.
When I came to visakhapatnam, i have resumed to my duties and have been working till date. After that that so called my husband went to Gulf countries and i have received hardly twice or thrice a call from him demanding whether i would come my home town leaving my job permanently and be with him or not for which i am not at all willing. Apart from that he never taken any care or responsibility of mine. How ever again few days ago again my father planned a false web, due to which again i believed him blindly, went to my home town as my so called husband came from dubai. Now my parents want me to go to his house and be with him for which i have seriously objected and calmly made come positive words with which i succeeded in relocating to my work place without any danger.
Now, I wish to get separated from him. If any one of my parents come and forcefully try to take me along with them how should i protect myself ? Can i create a divorce notice (mutual divorce petition as he is also not interested in me) or normal divorce notice and send it to his local address (another city in andhra) so that it get signed by him and my divorce gets issued? what exactly to be done and how tobe done ? when i approached local lawyer they are asking 15000...i m unable to afford that much.
As there are petty political Rep, Police in my near family do i need to contact Press to protect myself ? what should i do? Please reply immediately ..!
Further, I have acquired Passport stating that i m single but when police went to my home town my parents simply spoiled that enquiry and told the cop that i got married resulting which the enquiry mentioned as adverse..but later i got passport. Now i got notice from Passport office that i have lied and i should produce marriage certificate or affidavit. When i have contacted local passport official, they are insisting that i should produce only marriage certificate as my PP has been stopped online, even though it got issued and in my hands.. what to do..
Guest
(Expert) 06 January 2016
Getting your PassPort will not be difficult.Consult your PassPort Officer in Person and it would be Sorted out with Submission of Affidavits Required for Wrong Submission.Your marriage is Legally Valid and you should go for Legal Divorce for Legal Separation.I would Request you Not to take any Hasty steps and Think Twice.You should be Happy with whom God had given you as your Husband.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 06 January 2016
PRIMA-FACIE WHOLE FAMILY APPELARS TO BE FOND OF LIES AND FRAUDS.
am 25 years old, private employee working in Visakhkapatnam, AP. On 19th March 2014, my Father called up with false intimation that my Grand Ma was sick. But when i have reached there I have realised that they are just called me to fix a marriage with a Worse Scoundrel and un educated and all types of habituated wrong person just because that he is not taking dowry and he has helped my father with Rs. 10000/- during my education.
VERY PETTY SALE PRICE.
As my mum and dad were emotionally blackmailed that they would end up their lives or they would get bad names if their word of mouth is not fulfilled, i unwillingfully got married to that animal in a Church and instantly it got Marriage Registration Certificate.
YOU HAVE NEVER SAID THAT WHETHER ANY OR BOTH OF THME ARE CHRISTIAN
Except that there were no photos, videos. Soon after marriage
NOT REQUIRED IF BOTH ARE CHRISTIAN AND MARRIED IN CHURCH
both of us kept in room for 10 days where in we supposed to indulge in physical intimacy but i have not at all allowed that guy to touch me as i hate that relationship.
YOUR CHOICE BUT MARRIAGEIS COMPLETE IF BOTH ARE CHRISTIAN AND MARRIED IN CHURCH
When I came to visakhapatnam, i have resumed to my duties and have been working till date. After that that so called my husband went to Gulf countries and i have received hardly twice or thrice a call from him demanding whether i would come my home town leaving my job permanently and be with him or not for which i am not at all willing. Apart from that he never taken any care or responsibility of mine. How ever again few days ago again my father planned a false web, due to which again i believed him blindly, went to my home town as my so called husband came from dubai.
CAN YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE A DESERTED WIFE.
Now my parents want me to go to his house and be with him for which i have seriously objected and calmly made come positive words with which i succeeded in relocating to my work place without any danger.
Now, I wish to get separated from him. If any one of my parents come and forcefully try to take me along with them how should i protect myself ?
YOU CAN CALL POLICE WHEN PARENTS COMPEL YOU TO GO.
Can i create a divorce notice (mutual divorce petition as he is also not interested in me) or normal divorce notice and send it to his local address (another city in andhra) so that it get signed by him and my divorce gets issued? what exactly to be done and how tobe done ? when i approached local lawyer they are asking 15000...i m unable to afford that much.
YOUR IDEAS ARE FANCIFUL. CONTACT A LAWYER NEAR YOU.
As there are petty political Rep, Police in my near family do i need to contact Press to protect myself ?
YOUR CHOICE TO CONTACT PRESS.
Further, I have acquired Passport stating that i m single but when police went to my home town my parents simply spoiled that enquiry and told the cop that i got married resulting which the enquiry mentioned as adverse..but later i got passport. Now i got notice from Passport office that i have lied and i should produce marriage certificate or affidavit. When i have contacted local passport official, they are insisting that i should produce only marriage certificate as my PP has been stopped online, even though it got issued and in my hands.. what to do..
THIS ALLEGATION OF FRAUD HAS BEEN INVITED BY YOU. CONTACT PASSPORT OFFICE AND SEEK MERCY.
R.K Nanda
(Expert) 07 January 2016
query too long.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 07 January 2016
If you analyse the situation honestly,you would find that only you are at fault and not others.
1. You punished the person by marriage and not allowed to consummate the marriage because you were weak and did not oppose the decision of your parents.
2. You did not allowed marriage to be successful.
3. You did not considered the call from your legal husband.
4. You tried to defraud the country / law by submitting false information INTENTIONALLY in the passport application. This step can lend you in jail and snatch your job may your husband / some other person lodge complaint.
Try to have amicable settlement with your husband and file divorce.
