Efforts for reconciliation
Roshi Agr
(Querist) 06 April 2018
This query is : Resolved
Hello Professionals,
I am married for 4 years and having a 2 years old kid. I am working with Bank and my husband is having a small business in Pune. Since marriage we used to have arguments over small things like Household work and calling his relatives etc. but every time I tried to sort the issues. He even hit me 3-4 times but as I had a baby by that time I didn't take any step against him. Since last few months he started doubting me for having an affair outside just because I had to travel out of station for training or other official work and I talk to my male colleagues. 10 days back he checked my call log and called 2 of my contacts to enquire how do they know me and then we had a big argument over that. His mother was also at our place when this incident took place and as his family always has tried to break our marriage she asked him to leave the house. Since then my husband has left and has not returned home. Also we have a home loan on joint name for which my husband denied to pay EMI, so now i have to take care of all the expenses by myself. I tried to talk to him , even my parents tried but he refuses to talk. Please suggest what should I do if I don't want to file a divorce.
Ms.Usha Kapoor
(Expert) 10 April 2018
Involve neutral elders who are 3rd parties to resolve the marital discord amicably and immediately and also go for counseling.If they fail go for MCD which is the fastest divorce issued within 10 days to 6months.
