Need solution urgent
Rose
(Querist) 02 June 2017
This query is : Resolved
and is related to my married life n husband,mine is love marriage without both parents consent,for marriage purpose he compelled me leave my lic job,trusted him wholly and married him.problem arised with in 1 month of my marriage n i made a temple marriage on dec 18 2014 and then jan 23 2016 registered.A unkwown girl who is his best friend which he hided before marriage,entered my home with a problem that my husband manager is harrasing her,as iknew once she was back of my husband,i started avoiding her and evn helped her by making a meet at manager home.My problem is i strictly by his weird action and talking to her calls asked him totally avoid from our lives from then he started abusing me emotionally and later after 8 months of marriage she again started calling me and harrasing me for help her and creating problems in my family life,my husband asking for me do friendship with her and go to her home to help her but as her friend.Evn my husband fooled me in name of love marriage and career to maintain marital relationship only after proper career and i accepted for it.He badly broke my trust once i saw him locking me from out and talking to her at 3am.he started avoidn me n stopped talking to me,wen asked loudly he bitten me n made actions of scaring me and pushing me as my home is at 2nd floor i was scared and moved to my parents home.he jus cm to my home once only wen i had bank exams,fearing my career loss i tol afr exams il come.til now he dint come and its been 1 year and 3 months i cm here.now he is abusing me emotionally and asking me for a divorce.evn he killed my career my trust i thought to giv him a chance,he dint evn attend my dad funeral a month back,im feeling as if he cheated me what shud i do now he is not evn cared of asking me ro return instead he is saying return her but il see whole life as a friend only.what shud i do now as i loved him sincerely i dont wanna leav him but he is keeping whole blame and begged sorries to him no use.jus thrashing me with abuses that I'm feeling to end my life.nor his parents are asking till now what happened,what shud i do now pls do rply and what to do in this state.my only mistake i made is calling his friends every time who made our marriage to my home whenever he harrassed me for friend ship with that lady's
Rose
(Querist) 02 June 2017
Pls do rply since im stuck
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 03 June 2017
Try to save your marriage.
Are you sure that he was in relation with other lady, and have you tried to gather proofs?
There is possibility, you are spoiling your matrimonial life due to doubts.
If you find the relation is non reparable, only then move legally. Lodge complaint of domestic violence, file case for maintenance.
Collect proofs of his illegal relation and proceed for divorce.
Discuss in detail with local lawyer.
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 03 June 2017
Meanwhile search for another job to give you confidence and financial support.
Rose
(Querist) 08 June 2017
Sir i dont think he had an affair but wantedly he s pushing me out,if he had affair he is free now
