Marriage against family
Taranjeet
(Querist) 15 November 2012
This query is : Resolved
HELLO,
I am Taranjeet, 23, and my partner is also almost same of my age. due to some reason her family is not ready for our marriage. earlier they were ready but suddenly they refused to do.
Because of False hope created by her family, we both are much shattered. now we have decided to go against family.
can anyone tell me how we can do so?
i will be glad if anyone tell me full procedure of this kind of marriage.
*how much time it will take?
*how much money, i will havce to spend?
*i dont want her parents to be informed soon after/before marriage.
* Is there is any requirement of her home address as well ? because it might create trouble.
we both are very scared . but arnt not scared of taking this step. but we just want to confirm that there must not be a trouble afterwards. we want relaxed life. she is scared of the fact that her parents might impose false complaints against me.
anybody can help?
Guest
(Expert) 15 November 2012
You can go for court marriage. In some states such as Punjab, the court marriage can now be performed the same day. If you follow the normal course of a registered marriage, the notices from the office of the registrar inviting objections to the marriage would go to the house of the applicants thereto.
If you apprehend any kind of threat to your life and liberty you may seek protection from the HC.
Ashish Davessar
Advocate
Punjab and Haryana High Court, Chandigarh
Supreme Court of India
ajay sethi
(Expert) 15 November 2012
you are too young to be married at age of 23 . are you working ? can you meet your daily expenses ? where will you stay after marriage ?
better wait for 2years when you are able to stand on your feet and meet financial needs of your family . then decide .
Taranjeet
(Querist) 15 November 2012
i lived in australia for 4 years. i was doing Bachelor of law (5 year fulltime study). i had to leave my studies because my father died. i have struggled alot, for builing my career.
but now i'll be staying india permamnatly.
there is a lot of differences in procedure, rules etc. of australia and india.
I just want to confirm that, her parents shall not create any trouble for us iin future.
if anyhow her family will be notified then the problem will gonna be same.
then what will be "love maraige against family" known for.....
Taranjeet
(Querist) 15 November 2012
i can meet daily expenses. my earnings are quite well. i m doing business of trading as well. and have so many small set ups from where i got income. but the only thing is that . she is scared of her family. she is scared that her parents might kill me in future. and its so easy to say but difficult to do.
if law is in favour then no body can even touch us. that is why i am confirming first. i will hire a reputed lawyer who will do every thing on our behalf.
thanks.
but only thing is that , i want her parents must not be informed. possible ??
because we want that , after a passage of time we will definitly convince coz' at that time we will be together. but we need some time to settle down and then sovle dispute with family.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 16 November 2012
It is very easy process in Punjab & Haryana. Marriage say anad Karj in any Gurudwara and on the same day filing a petition before any District Judge for protection. On the same day, it is provided to the couple a safe protection house wherein both of them may live for a considerable period till they desire and meanwhile families of both spouse is duly intimated but they can do nothing because of police protection.
This protection can even be got availalble at own house. If you desire, may contact me as I am settled in Haryana.
