i want divorce
Amit Oza
(Querist) 13 November 2009
This query is : Resolved
i have been married for 18 months ,and after 4 months of the marriage there was no relation ship between two of us. she is not behaving properly with me nor my parents and always abuse me that i am forcing her to complete the studies and take up job.in april 2009 she went to her mother palce and,i have heard that her parents were searching groom for her.
but they falied and in Oct2009, she filed a false complain that my parents are beating her and we are asking dowery.
i am totally depressed by her nature and will not be in any position to continue the marrigae Even i told her that we will take seperate room but the mahila takrar nivaran kendra officer is forcing me that i cant take a seperate room and i should earn 25000 p.m then only she will permit me to take seperate room.
i have no fellings for her and will not able to live my life with her.and also i want to know where i can complain about the mahila takrar nivaran kendra officer.
please help me on which ground i can take divorce
Kiran Kumar
(Expert) 13 November 2009
Amit Ji,
u can file a Divorce Petition on the grounds of Cruelty and Desertion, but the problem is she has already filed few complaints against you....and during divorce proceedings she may create problem on that basis.
m not saying your case is week, you may be having a good case on merits...but in ordinary course the matter will take a long time.
so at this stage my advice is have a talk with the other party, if she is also not interested and is willing to get married to some other guy then let the proceedings for divorce proceed on the basis of mutual consent.
if no sollution comes out then proceed in normal course....we have few best of the lawyers here, you can engage anyone for litigation.
niranjan
(Expert) 13 November 2009
I agree with Kiransir File the divorce petition and a day will come for compromise.
Adv Archana Deshmukh
(Expert) 13 November 2009
Sound advice given by kiran ji. If reconciliation is not possible then it is better to get divorce peacefully by mutual consent.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 13 November 2009
No much time has passed. Life is not so easy. Life is the name of compromise so better you conciliate with her and with good sense again start your life with mutual understanding instead of taking the matter of divorce so easy. I think no strong grounds are with you seeking divorce on cruelty on the part of your wife. Make compromise.
V.V.RAMDAS
(Expert) 14 November 2009
Raj Kumar's view is a noble view and it is the view of SC also. Try again and again.
