Is compromise possible after 498a
maina
(Querist) 05 April 2013
This query is : Resolved
I am separated with my husband since 20 months and in between 23 months. my husband and nobody from his family came at my home to get me back.I tried my level best for going back and again start our married life but always my husband put some excuses and hold this matter for further discussion.Now i file domestic violence case against him and during my first hearing i came to know hat he already filed section 9 and divorce case against me.he never sent me any information and any notice for those cases.this is very shocking for me, as he was continuously in touch with me and always talk about our happy married life and patch up.After that , with the suggestion of my lawyer i filed 498a against him and his parents. they all got arrested and get immediately bail too.He cheated me, ignore me , but still i really don't want to loose him.i want to stay with him.Please suggest me what should i do next.is there any hope in my relationship.please suggest me.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 05 April 2013
tell your husband that you are willing to with draw DV case and 498A case if he is willing to with draw divorce case . contest the divorce case .
ajay sethi
(Expert) 05 April 2013
once you get your in laws arrested and your husband too then how can you expect to welcome you with open arms . you should have thought twice before filing 498A case
prabhakar singh
(Expert) 05 April 2013
The relation between SPOUSES begins with and ends with COMPROMISE unless any of the two is a MUG.
maina
(Querist) 05 April 2013
Thanks Ajay Sir,
498a can withdraw or can get back.Is it possible
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 05 April 2013
498A can be compromised and accordingly statement as hostile witnesses may be made but question is that whether your husband has become ready to make compromise?
First ensure settlement with mutual consent and only then become hostile.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 05 April 2013
Yes 498A case can be compromised in trial court or in the high court by mutual quashing.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 05 April 2013
if you arrive at mutual settlement then you can move high court for quashing .
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 06 April 2013
Has your husband shown any intention whatsoever for compromise. If not then forget about reconciliation and withdrawal.
You have never stated in your blog that your allegations are true.
Adv k . mahesh
(Expert) 06 April 2013
498a can be compromise
first you discuss with your husband and then with your in laws that you want to come back then think what steps and how to plan your life with your husband again
Adv. Chandrasekhar
(Expert) 06 April 2013
both you and yourself sit together avoiding any third party interference and decided to stay together or not. Once you decide to stay together, legal remedies are available to withdraw all the pending cases.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 30 June 2013
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R.V.RAO
(Expert) 31 January 2014
sri chandrasekhar adv. is right.
agar miya bibi raji hai to kya karega kaji?
if husband and wife sit together and resolve in the presence of well wishers and elders and decide to live together, legal remedies always possible.
