Its necessary to pay compensate for divorce
Prashant K Gupta
(Querist) 26 October 2014
This query is : Resolved
I am 25 years old married boy. I was marry on 07.03.2014.
After all customs and traditions in 1st night when I started to talk with my wife she Overthrew my hands and started shouting & quarreling with me. She said to me that she wants to 1) She don't likes sex with me 2) Live alone 3) She don't likes my family’s customs and traditions 4) She threw rupees on my face when I asked him that if you don’t likes all these customs and traditions then you can told me before.
After next morning his father come to see and explain Hindu's customs and traditions to his daughter because she is crying during telephonic conversation and she told her father that she don't likes all these things. I suggest him that he will come with any ladies so she can better explain. But his father come with his brother and he take away my wife without Adieu (Vidai) he told us that he will explain Hindu's customs and traditions at my sasural. We told him that its is already fix that we are Nasik Tour for honeymoon so we can not do Adieu (Vidai).
When my mothers told for vidai on before Nvratri so we can worship of our Totem (Kul Devi / Devita). Her father told that he will confirm after discussions his brother of law. When we told him he said that “Preeti (my wife) will not go”.
There is no any type of contact with our family and my wife’s family.
Today is 26.10.2014 we san say 7 month after marriage.
There is no physical with my wife.
She don’t likes my family’s customs and traditions (Kul devi/devta pooja, Navratri poojan, dipawali poojan, Karwachout pooja or many other traditions)
I am living with mental shock because what can I say when some body asking about my married life.
What can I do.
Some one told me that If I want divorce then I will pay compensate.
Kindly suggest me what can I do.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 26 October 2014
wait for 5 more months . then file for divorce on rounds of mental cruelty . refusal to have sex amounts to mental cruelty . please note that you cant file for divorce unless period of 1 year has elapsed exceptional circumstances . since your wife does not want to stay with you better file for divorce by mutual consent
Prashant K Gupta
(Querist) 26 October 2014
Ajay Sir,
Thats means I cannot file divorce before 1 Year
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 26 October 2014
Yes, if your wife is a housewife then you have to give maintenance if court gives such order.
Now suit for divorce seems only option. Since she is also not willing to live with you, then try for amicable settlement in which case divorce would be fast and smooth.
Prashant K Gupta
(Querist) 26 October 2014
Devajyoti Barman
She is a student.
Why I pay maintenance its own dissension.
Can I file compensate for mental cruelty
Rajendra K Goyal
(Expert) 26 October 2014
Remain in talking terms with your in laws and your wife if possible. Call them every week. Try to adjust your traditions as per changed scenario. If possible think living separate from your family to save your marriage. Take help of common family friends. Try to keep record of conversation and efforts.
If the same does not work explore possibility of Mutual Consent Divorce after period of one year from marriage.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 26 October 2014
As per current provision of law all indian husbands are liable for maintenance to housewifes.
Your suit for compensation will be a futile exercise.
Anirudh
(Expert) 26 October 2014
She is student of what?
Guest
(Expert) 26 October 2014
Mr. Prashant,
Student or not, when married, liability to maintain wife gets devolved on the husband, unless is earning more than the husband. So, you can't escape from this permanent type of liability.
Guest
(Expert) 26 October 2014
Dear Author,Since She is the One Not Ready to live with you For your Safety and Settlements with out any Ego meet and Speak to that Lady it self in a Polite manner So that you could get rid of the same Legally and with out any commitments also.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 26 October 2014
you have to wait for one year from date of your marriage before filing for divorce . you will have to pay her maintenance
Guest
(Expert) 26 October 2014
Dear author,In Severel cases an open mind with free talks could put an end to the issues and it could be arrived with Legal Guidance.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 26 October 2014
yes, shirk off all egos and try for amicable settlement else you are likely to be implicated in several cases on top of which you would be saddled with maintenance as well.
