kindly advice
kalpesh
(Querist) 16 April 2009
This query is : Resolved
hi , I wann put forward a querry which my frnd underwent and need ur strong advice.
My frnds name is roshAN
ROSHAN had a best frnd named shilpa, they both were very very close frnds and used to talk daily for hrs on phone,
Suddenly when at shilpa’s place her dad started seeing guy for her to get her married , her father started getting phone calls saying that your daughter and roshan has an affair, roshan will die this that, for many days her dad got calls, one day the fellow who used to call her dad gave him roshan’s landline number, shilpa’s dad called roshan and asked whats the matter, he said there is nothing like that and he doesn’t calls him
After few days in temple someone put the notice that shilpa and roshan has an affair and she will run away all.
So his dad filed a police complaint
Shilpa said roshan to say to police that they were frnds only till school and after that had jus little touch only.
She said roshan that if u say we were so close all then my dad will think I had an affair all.
So in order to save her image roshan lied to police that he speaks very rarely to her and he doesn’t has mobile,
That day police let him go and made him write in a paper that he has no touch with that gal and he can be called futher also for enquiry.
After few days again someone put some notice in the temple and his dad also got threatening calls
So once again they called roshan for enquiry, this time they took all details of calls received on shilpas mobile,
They asked roshan this is nly ur mobile number and u usd to speak daily with her, why did u lie,
So they made roshan remove his shirt and sit in the corner for 5hrs, they warned him to accept that he has called her dad and put those notices in temple,
But roshan dint do anything so he jus sat there cried fi\or hrs and said that the gal only said to lie to save her image,
At night 10p.m. they made roshan write in a white paper that he was called for investigation and will be called further also if requied
Roshan is now mentally very tired, and his dad still receive calls
They have just lodged a complaint and No f.i.r has been lodged yet.
Can they make the temple priest to lie that he was only the one who stuck the notices on the temple,
The person who called used to call from pco and then from mobile, he used to get sim cards without proof
Everyone in shilpas community know about this matter and Roshan is in fear that her dad can make the sim card dealer also to lie that he issued sim only to roshan in order to save her daughters image in the society,
If they arrest roshan on doubt , they can they beat him in the jail
What kinda case can be filed against him and how serious it is.
What remedies u suggest , what should roshan do now…..
tarun goyal
(Expert) 16 April 2009
dear, first try to understand that roshan is at receiving end. first, if he really loves that girl, he will have o declare it before the father of the girl. secondly, if he continues to be taken in by the girl or his dad and keep on trusting them, he will bw in mjar trouble. further, law is in favour of the women, and in the last no body will believe his part of the ordeal. once, he actd on the advice of the girl to save her. he was humiliated. next time he will definitely face prosecution. as is clear from your facts, his father can make any body lie in his favour, but it is apparent that no body will put himself in peril for the sake of the boy. your friend will first try himself to distance himself from the girl inmmediately and after wardssoluktion wil be given for any proceedings only after the analysis of the evmidence against him. ihope u get my point. this appears to be a risky affair , if this is true.
kalpesh
(Querist) 17 April 2009
@Prabhakar
but sir bail can only be given if they have lodged any F.I.r, but as of now they have not lodged any f.i.r. they have just made a complaint to police
kalpesh
(Querist) 17 April 2009
@tarun goyal
But how can it be a substantiative proof if they make the sim card dealer lie, as first of all issuing sim cards without proofs is an offence so how can his words be taken as evidence by law. and if again his dad receives calls and police calls roshan for enquiry then what he should do.. i was not clear on ur explanation, it will be ur kindliness if u explain it in a more simpler that what roshan must do now.
