Rcr section 9 helps in my case?
user
(Querist) 16 February 2012
This query is : Resolved
Our marriage age is 10 years almost. We had two kids. I am NOT happy with wife's behavior, she is more arrogant, abnormal agressive, always tries disturb my regular life. I am upset, Now she is with her parents including our kids. In her genetics there is physic issue as her elder sister has sychoprenia and she is not living with her husband. I doubt she might have exactly not this, but might have some psychic issue, but they are not ready to come to hospital for treatment.
I dont want go for divorce, but I want correct her that's all. In this case, Does RCR helps me to ask legally get the treatment?
Please advise.
Thanks.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 16 February 2012
dont file for RCR it wuill further aggravaye matters .
be on your best behaviour . you have 2 young kids and you dont want a divorce .
give her an expensive gift on her birthday /marriage anniversary .
tell her we need to go to marriage counsellor . involve the elders in your efforts for reconcilation
Nadeem Qureshi
(Expert) 17 February 2012
Dear User
I agree with Mr. Sethi on social ground but not legaly, as per my opinion file RCR it is very strong case and only one case in favour of husband, if she is not ready to come then the court pass a decree and you can file a divorce if you want on that ground. if the court pass a RCR decree, she can not claim maintenance.
feel free to call
Surender Kumar Sharma
(Expert) 17 February 2012
Dear questioner
I agree with the view of the Mr.Sethi but not totally with Mr. Nadeem because your question and quarry is how you both can joint so I dont thing giving suggestion for divorce is not good of-course the process is right but you requirement is in the answer of Mr.Sethi on the other hand answer of Mr. Nadeem is stong when there is more dispute and no chance of counselling
user
(Querist) 18 February 2012
Thank you all. If I call, giving big gifts on vacations all temporary as per my knowledge and experience with her. I strongly believe counseling and treatment is ONLY the way. One of my friend who is advocate suggested me if you file RCR, they will guide for counseling and further, they suggest to go for treatment. If she comes treatment easily, I would have NOT suffered like this. Parents hand is ALSO there ofcourse.
Pl suggest.
dev kapoor
(Expert) 19 February 2012
Look dear User,
I still request you to have deep introspection of your innerself.In many case one's overlooks his own mistakes or thinks that his mistakes are his birthright right.In some case 'manly ego' also propagates this kind of problems.Your wife seems annoyed.A pundit was suggesting the following to exactly a couple of your kind, I was sitting by their side:
1.Take your wife for a dinner,at least once a month. If you can afford once a week with kids;
2.If possible have a break from your job/business & go for a tour to Vaishno Devi or other religious tourism according to your religion;
3.Take one meal together i.e. at Lunch or Dinner sit together for eating.While eating put some morsels of food in her mouth (that will also prove you have no manly ego & are interested in you Life Partner )If possible morsel of some sweet or her favourite sweet;
4.Consult some psychoanalyst or psychologist etc.Go both together.He/She will tell the ways to live happy life as also,who needs mending ways.
Good Luck !
