Safety for my family from suicide attempt
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 22 January 2012
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hello Sir, i am hitesh, there are few serious issues.
how to protect my family from abuse and arrest warrants.
how to be safe if she attempt suicide.
how to take child custody if she reapets the same as before.
i want a agreement for clean chit for my family and me.
1. how to protect my family from my wife suicide attempt, i am giving her last chance for taking care of my family and my child. she only lies and having contact with her friends and chatting with them, and taking wrong steps.
2. if she dosent correct her self from all the above issue, then i will file a divorce and i want my child custody with me and my family, so that she will not interfere in future. and if she attempts suicide then my family or me will not be responsible for it.
i want agreement to be made.
please guide me what to do further.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 22 January 2012
when Defence Adv JSDN says "Law is not in your favor" u be carful ,
Go to marriage Councillor, get better understanding. be peaceful, helping to each other, have harmonical, co-ordinal trustful atmosphere, where all feel safe & secure.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 22 January 2012
sir her family knows that she is wrong in all the matters, her family is ready to give me in written statment, her family is supporting me because i am very clear person and i dont lie in any matter, they trust me, and even i dont want to spoil her life as she is my wife. allready i have given her three chance. for the safety in future i kneed advise. she is with me right now and we want to stay together, but i cant trust her, so some legal advise and safety for my child future and my family . please reply sir
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 22 January 2012
1. No one can protect any one from the rigours of law. There may be some preventive measures like bail, abscondance, counter cases eyc.
2. Marital relationship depends on mutual faith, trust and bond. If that is not there then it is better to move on with dignity.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 22 January 2012
1)your wife has suicidal tendencies . she may be prone to depression .
consult a psyhicatrist
2) medical records should indicate that on account of depression she has attempted suicde.
3)prefernce is given to mother for child custody unless you are able to convince the court that mother is unfit . welfare of child is paramount considertaion .
4)you have to be more undertsanding and supporitve . under no circumstancs tell her that you will file for divorce and child custody .
5) do not create feeling of insecurity in her . you have to be supportive and tell her that you will always be around to take care of her no matter what happens .
6)if you make threats of divorce and taking child custody and she commits suicide and leaves behind a sucide note you will be in serious trouble and may be booked for abetement to suicide
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 22 January 2012
I have also similar opinion as of sethi.
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 22 January 2012
am also agree with our members.. especially with barman and ajay sir..
-tom-
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 22 January 2012
ajay sir, my wife dosent have any suicidal tendencies, she didnt attempt to suicide, she just told me twise only, she is black mailing me, i just told her dont keep contacts with ur past boy friend. i have all the proofs of contact details. but to i am giving her chance to forget all and live life happily with me. but i dont trust her now. so i am asking her to give me in writing safety of my child and family.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 22 January 2012
The you can file a case for criminal intimidation against her.
If you are staying separately then you can file suit for custody of the child where you can focus these points.
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 22 January 2012
sir, she was apart from me for 11months, just two days back she joined me on basis of writen agreement, that she will no repeat in future and if repated i will file a divorce and child custody will be with me, and if she try to attempt suicide, i or my family will not be responsible for it. sir please reply me. what to do now.
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 22 January 2012
No agreement can make a family united and peaceful.
Try to build faith in stead of trying to tie her by paper agreements.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 22 January 2012
no one in sane mind would say i want to commit suicde. the fact that twice she has said she wants to commit suicide means she does have inclination for it .
better consult a psychiatrist . mention her threats of commiting suicde . it should be reflected in the report of psychiatrist .
the wriiten agreement executed by her can be on account of coercion . threats by you that unless she signed on written agreement you will divorce her
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 22 January 2012
sir then i think better to give her divorce because i cant risk my family if she does any thing wrong, can u siggest me please sir
Devajyoti Barman
(Expert) 22 January 2012
You does not seem to be satisfied with so many suggestions above.
ajay sethi
(Expert) 22 January 2012
it appears you have made up your mind for divorcing your wife . it is your call . as experts our brief is to give you unbiased advice which we have goiven to you .
take your own decision
Querist :
Anonymous
(Querist) 22 January 2012
sirs thanks for all of ur advises. i will discuss with her and let u know after few days if needed. thanks once again all of u sir.
Raj Kumar Makkad
(Expert) 22 January 2012
blackmailing by wife for committing suicide can become a base for your divorce petition.
V R SHROFF
(Expert) 22 January 2012
HOW WILL HE PROVE SHE BLACKMAIL & THREATEN TO SUICIDE??? BARKING DOG NEVER BITE
M/s. Y-not legal services
(Expert) 23 January 2012
shroff sir.,
i have a dog., his name is Q. he will bark well., as well as bite very well..
-tom-
Shonee Kapoor
(Expert) 02 February 2012
:-)
Regards,
Shonee Kapoor
harassed.by.498a@gmail.com
DEFENSE ADVOCATE.-firmaction@g
(Expert) 22 January 2012
