Wether i can apply divorce.
Jeevitha
(Querist) 01 December 2017
This query is : Resolved
Hello
Am 22 Years old.
i got married on april 30,2017. Actually my marriage happen due to blackmail and compeltion.actually i worked as a structual detailer before marriage. As per tamil nadu marrige boy will come and see the girl they will proceed. First tym Due to my relations they ask me to say okay to him. That time i got scared and said okay. Then i called him and i said what happend there and i said am not intrested to marry u.. And he called to my parents and forced me to make arrangements for engagements.and before marrige also i said i dint like him. And i said to him also he said he will die and my parents also balckmailed me that they will die.i did so many problems to stop this marriage . In that i got married.
now am not intrested to live with him. What i can do now
please give any suggestion
Jeevitha
(Querist) 01 December 2017
if i want to leave from that house. They are asking me to give 7lakhs.
My parents are not supporting me.
am not intrested to live with him. Please give any suggestion
Guest
(Expert) 01 December 2017
Better discuss this with Women;s Legal Aid Forum Or Free Legal Aid Forum available in your near by Court and they would take care
Vijay Raj Mahajan
(Expert) 01 December 2017
You are 22 years old not a child that you were forced to marry without your consent. You should have resisted and refused for marriage when it was being solemnized. You after all the process over cannot make grounds for marriage by force or fraud. Even if your parents pressurized you for marriage that you should have responded in their tone itself rather agreeing for it.
As such marriage by force or fraud is a ground for annulment of marriage not divorce, secondly as stated above the ground of force for marriage which you state here may not be good enough for Family Court to give any relief to you and annul your marriage by decree of nullity.
P. Venu
(Expert) 01 December 2017
There appears to be no chance of getting the divorce otherwise than through mutual consent.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate 
(Expert) 01 December 2017
Actually my marriage happen due to blackmail and compeltion.actually i worked as a structual detailer before marriage. As per tamil nadu marrige boy will come and see the girl they will proceed. First tym Due to my relations they ask me to say okay to him. That time i got scared and said okay. Then i called him and i said what happend there and i said am not intrested to marry u.. And he called to my parents forced me to make arrangements for engagements.
HOW YOUR WERE FORCED. ANY POLICE REPORT MADE BY YOU?
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 December 2017
and before marrige also i said i dint like him. And i said to him also he said he will die and my parents also balckmailed me that they will die.
ANY COMPLAINT YOU MADE TO POLICE?
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 December 2017
i did so many problems to stop this marriage .
VAGUE QUERY. YOU HAVE NOT DESCRIBED THE PROBLEMS YOU CREATED FOR YOUR PARENTS.
Sudhir Kumar, Advocate
(Expert) 01 December 2017
now am not interested to live with him. What i can do now please give any suggestion
YOU HAVE NO GROUND TO APPLY FOR DIVORCE (ATLEAST APPEARING FROM GIVEN FACTS) SO YOU HAVE TO BEG FOR HIS MERCY SO THAT HE CAN AGREE FOR MUTUAL DIVORCE.
Guest
(Expert) 01 December 2017
You can feel free to apply for divorce, which will be subject to admission of your case as per the conditions prescribed in marriage & other family laws as well as evidence in your favour during trial, as and whenever happens.
Jeevitha
(Querist) 01 December 2017
I dint gave any police complaint.That's the mistake I had done. . Force they had given to me is I ll say I won't marry U. He will call to my parents and say she is saying like this .then my parents will get hanger and they will beat me.
And Tried to stop my engagement like I cutted my hands before that I cried a lot I dint ate for 3 days. than before marriage I dint ate so many days then cried lot I said my situations am not interested to marry. Engament got over so we cannot able to stop marriage if u stop ,my parents said they will do something like suicide. So I struggled and this was stoped make complain to police.
Jeevitha
(Querist) 01 December 2017
After marriage due to this problem am totally affected mentally and physically. Now my health conditions is very bad Due to lot of thinking . Some times am to hurting my self ...
Jeevitha
(Querist) 01 December 2017
After marriage due to this problem am totally affected mentally and physically. Now my health conditions is very bad Due to lot of thinking . Some times am to hurting my self ...
Jeevitha
(Querist) 02 December 2017
The mistake I done is starting two tyms I got some fear. I said okay. Because the things which happened near to me is like am doing a mistake . Like that my parents and my cousins were created and convincing me. I was totally dono what am doing.
Jeevitha
(Querist) 02 December 2017
The mistake I done is starting two tyms I got some fear. I said okay. Because the things which happened near to me is like am doing a mistake . Like that my parents and my cousins were created and convincing me. I was totally dono what am doing.
Jeevitha
(Querist) 02 December 2017
The mistake I done is starting two tyms I got some fear. I said okay. Because the things which happened near to me is like am doing a mistake . Like that my parents and my cousins were created and convincing me. I was totally dono what am doing.
N.K.Assumi
(Expert) 02 December 2017
Now it is your turn to Die not them, or ask for mutual consent divorce.
Guest
(Expert) 02 December 2017
Ms. Jeevitha,
There is always a solution, if any real problem is there. But there cannot be any practical solution if the problem is of hypothetical and academic nature, as it is evident from your narrations..
Apparently, has it been a real problem of yours and also been so serious as you try to demonstrate, you could not have come here with casual and controversial types of statements You could well have discussed at length with your parents, who could have rushed to some local talented lawyer, if you were not able to approach him directly.
The question arises, why making vague stories,if not a real problem and why not approaching to some good lawyer, if it happens to be your real problem?
Even if some useful solution is suggested by some expert here, ultimately, you will have to fight your case through some good lawyer, not by yourself, when out of fear you could not narrate your story even before your parents. So, why not contact some local good lawyer at your own place, instead of unduly wasting yours as well as experts' time.
YOU SHOULD BE AWARE THAT NO PARENT TRY TO BLACKMAIL THEIR OWN CHILDREN.
A QUESTION OF COMMONSENSE FOR YOU IS, WHEN OUT OF FEAR, YOU COULD NOT TAKE YOUR OWN PARENTS IN YOUR CONFIDENCE BY NARRATING YOUR WOES, HOW YOU FEEL THAT YOU WOULD DARE TO FILE A DIVORCE CASE?
Jeevitha
(Querist) 02 December 2017
Am ready to file divorce . But he is creating a problem.
Jeevitha
(Querist) 02 December 2017
I wanna know how I need to handle this situation.
Guest
(Expert) 02 December 2017
are you sure, whether you can handle the situation?
You are required to think seriously at least 10 times, how you can handle the situation, when you could not dare to discuss the problem even with your parents even till now?
If you really want to handle the situation, must take your parents and other near relatives in to confidence and discuss everything in detail with them, without any hesitation. OTHERWISE FORGET IT.
