498A and 406

Dear experts I have applied divorce under cruelty after wife complained 498A,406 FIR. Now my HMOP divorce case is in final stage that is cross examine completed for both parties. Now can I squash my 498A case which is in mahila court now. And my advocate told, first squash applied only for family( that is my mother,sister,brother) and period of time squash will apply for me. Applying squash is an good move now or can we hold until divorce case is completed. Also squash can apply including me is an good idea? Can experts help me on this pls? Both cases combined and after lot of struggles my cross examine completed. Now she submitted proff of affidavit for only one case that is for my divorce case and not for her conjugal rights case. Is this valid