498a divorce

Originally posted by : bvsprao
	My wife on 30th Jan'17 lodged a compalinant under 498A. The police beaten in police station, next day (31st) sent to womens PS, in FIR they showed me that my wife has given compainant on 30th Jan, arrested on 1 st Feb'17 at 6 am, sent to remand on 12 noon, after taking my reply that I will fight case in court under notice 41. After coming out of bail, I investigated and found 1. It is her third marriage ( told me 2nd, for me 2nd ), We got married in temple in presence of my family memebers and her elder sister, friend, her mother. Her father didn't com for marriage citing health problems next day came for reception, signed as witness in marriage certificate( at Registarar office) in her 1st marriage she took away around 10 lacs gold from laws, as they are rich, they settled for mutual consent divorce, get rid of her in her 2nd marriage she filed an FIR under 498A and got settelement of 9 lacs which was mentioned in divorce decree. one month before my marriage she filed and FIR against a person for s*xual harassment in PS I have all the proofrs like 1 st divorce papers, 2nd marriage divorce paper,FIR against 2nd husband under 498A, FIR for s*xual harassment in xerox. 2nd husband and person on whom s*xual harassment filed are ready to help me in coming to PS or court. 2. Her elder sister is also divorce, filed FIR under 498A, finally got settlement 8 lacs alimony which was not shown in divorce decree. 3. From this marriage I got a daughter born on 23 rd Jan'17. When the daughter was in ICU on 30th Jan'17( I got her admitted), leaving the baby at ICU, my wife along with sister, parents filed compalaint. They spent 6 hours on 30th, 12 hours on 31st at police station to get their FIR lodged, bribed them. which shows their professional approach. 4. Before 498A case I have given an advance to purchase a house. Thier intention was to stop me in purchasing the house, get 15 lacs for them. From my 1str wife I have a son who is staying with me, my 1st wife gave money in DD in my name, when I transferred my property to her. I ahve all proofrs against her compaliants in FIR to prove my innocency 1Q) How to come out of this 498 case myself ? Shall we all( Victims) file an FIR against their family? 2Q)  how to protect my house which I'm going to buy, tomorrow she should not ask for share, right to stay. Shall I purchase in my sons name who is 17 years or in my mothers name etc. If I purchase in my son's name , tomorrow if he throws me out of the house I will be on roas again, If I purchase house in my mothers name( she is ready to give registred will), my elder expired brothers family should not claim. It is my hard earned money. or shall I purchase in my son and in my mothers name as a joint property? Please advise

 

Marriage looks good once and divorce also looks good once only.

 

What more option do you have than throw money and take divorce ?

Best way out is that only.  You are already experienced person.  Alimony issues and DV case for residence will eat up your pocket also and life also.  You transfer your property to your mothers name?  That wont be useful now as cases are already filed against you.  In case it comes to your property’s neck, then you will simply have to give away the property or court itself will handover the property (here there are many possibilities of why this could happen, I am pointing out worse case scenario).

 

You simply sell off the property and invest the money in some other place which cannot be traced by your wife or court (there are lot of ways to do it)  why I am suggesting this is, for simple reason that you are not in position to trust anyone.  So better sell it and money which you get from the sale you invest it silently elsewhere.

 

Don’t open two threads for same problem.

 

I don’t suggest you to fight cases, already you must be 40-45.  Even if you are innocent, if you wish to fight the case of 498a, it will easily eat up another decade, end result even God cant tell what it will be.

 

Mister, after debacle number 1, did you not learn any lesson that you got into marriage 2, which is bigger debacle than marriage no. 1?  You could have simply looked after your son for the rest of your life.  Now you have double not triple trouble, what will you do with your new daughter from marriage 2?  That kid will again eat your money/property once she is 18.  You will have to be in hiding mode forever with regard to property.  That’s why I am telling, go for settlement, pay her and also the kid so that they will let you live in peace for the remaining days of your life.

 

If you are in Bangalore you can contact me.  Or contact some advocate who has vast experience in handling matrimonial disputes locally.

 

Convey thanks for the advise that you just read on my profile page by visiting it at

 

https://www.lawyersclubindia.com/profile.asp?member_id=84464

PS:  You should not have remarried at all.  Best option is Mutual Consent DIvorce via settlement.

Thanks for your kind advice. I'm still to purchase house.Given advance. Seller refused to give it back advance. After giving advance only ,my wife lodged FIR.she knows the property.

Holy Shit ... a serial offender and family business ... hope you come out of this mess.

@ Author 

Even Prostitues have some decency . They sleep with you but take the fees negoitated for .Here your present wife has made you her third Bakra . Your case is like a robbery in broad day light under the very eyes of law . and at a ransom for settlement via MCD .Better to approach high court u/s 482 for quashing of FIR . . 

whats the amount of advance  you have paid to the builder compared to the  total value of the property . If it is neglible than forget the advance. Its is better  losing a little rather than the whole amount  . Its better to buy property in your mothers name .

After two experiences and if you wish to marry its better to search for poor orphan girl from a remote village and get married after finding out all the details .Best to ramain single and look after your kid or become sanyasi .