I am a 52 year old Male, married for 27 years. My wife was having a personality disorder since marriage, wherein she used insulting language at the slightest pretext aimed at almost anyone around her, as a result she has poor relations with even her own family
She used to threat me with committing suicide and putting everyone in the family behind bars and also asked me to commit suicide if I could not buy expensive things. In May this year I got a job offer in Mumbai and also found out that she was having late night phone calls from male friends and later (verbally) admitted to having physical relations with some of them. She again repeated her threats that she would ruin my job by misusing the law if I did anything. I made a complain to the local PS recording the above facts. I am now in Bombay but during one of my visits in end August we had a verbal altercation but she has informed me that she has lodged a complaint with some social service organization for Violence against her and is planning to inform my employers or local police and has send threats to do so. Under the circumstances I have the following questions.
1.Since nearly two months have passed ,Is their any time limit within which the Service provider has to inform the Magistrate or the local Protection Officer. Can I ignore this threat now?
2.If I file a Divorce Suit now on the ground of this threat, and the fact that I have complained to local PS in June stating my fears, will I get protection/anticipatory bail from harassment under DV Act or 498a?
4.I have huge debts to repay- & in case of Maintenance,will it be calculated only on my present income but also on the total position of my finances?
Please help mr with your valued opinions