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 Go to the police station and lodge a complaint as a buffer against her taking precipitate action against you. Forget reconciliation. If she is hell bent on destroying you monetarily, any talk of reconciliation is baloney. Donot fall for this trap.

Dear vikrant,

Please dont do anything haste.  Just wait for good time to come to start negotiations fresh and try to discuss the exact problems with your wife's family and with your wife.  Settlement and negotiations are most important at this stage. Take the assitance of some family counsellors/ elders of the locality / politicians and try to make negotiations and purchase peace at any cost.  Life is short.  Try to live peacefully.  If you take any legal actions,  your wife may also take legal actions and both of you will loose peace.  I again say "purchase peace at any cost."

 This happens in films.

 Objectivity arises from subjective experiences and thoughts. Good luck to Mr. Vikrant. If you can fight bitterly and then patch up, leading to blissful life with emotional involvement, as if nothing ever happened, what better life can you expect than this? My good wishes.

 Mr. Grover's advice is unexceptional. It is also a practical suggestion.

 really a good suggetion , now it ll give ur wife two options , take it or leave it

1) file an fir about threating of comiting sucide.

2) file a rcr

3) take a little rest

4) get ready for 498a & dv

"In the meeting her father demanded for cash, jewellery and property of my father inliew of sending back her to our home. My father offers a rental house (rent will be paid by my father) but still they refuses."

what is her actual complain, why for she refusing to stay in her matrimonial home?

 When heart rules, mind stops functioning. There are no if, buts, and reasons. Having walked thus far, there is no turning back. Take preemptive action and be prepared for a long drawn fight.

what is her actual complain, why for she refusing to stay in her matrimonial home?

Million Dollar question.

Is not the father afraid that once exposed to physical satisfaction, and now , deprieved of it, there are chance of the lady going astray? Is he not concerned about the poor ladies feelings? Go and bring back ur wife from her father's place. Instill love in her with so much care and attention that she should come out of the influence of her parental home.

what is her actual complain, why for she refusing to stay in her matrimonial home?

Million Dollar question.

Is not the father afraid that once exposed to physical satisfaction, and now , deprieved of it, there are chance of the lady going astray? Is he not concerned about the poor ladies feelings? Go and bring back ur wife from her father's place. Instill love in her with so much care and attention that she should come out of the influence of her parental home.

At the same time i would like to add that there is wisdom in the words of Mr Agarwal. 

 Morals have no place with her or with her father.

every persons have his individual mind set. when a person thinks deeply on a matter, he reaches nearer to the truth.

every persons have his individual mind set. when a person thinks deeply on a matter, he reaches nearer to the truth................ or goes further away from it.