Dear Friends
After havin long 6 years affairs, finally we have arrange marriage (though against my mother in laws wishes) and live happiliy for almost 7 month. One day after a hot argument with my wife for a small issue, my wife call her brother and next day morning she went to her house with his brother without my consent. That time she was 3 months pragnent. After that I went three times to bring her back but showing so many excuses she dint come. On 16.4.2010 she gave birth a girl child in her mothers place and I took all the care of her and borne the expanses of the hopital. Three months after together with my parents I went to bring her back but my father in law refuses to sent telling she is not well completely and promised that he will take her to my place once she is well. But after one year still she refuses to come telling she is not well. Here my mother in law playin an important rule. She completely motivate my wife. Last month I told her that I am going to file a divorce, and they want one month time from me . When it over I approached Kazi (Muslim Marraiage/Divorce Registrar) and he try to reconcile the matter over telephone. My wife said to him that I asked Rs. 10 Lakh and a Flat as dowry and resason for not coming is that I wanted to have an abortion when she was pregnent. (All three are totally false and baseless allegation). I sent the first notice through Kazi asking for recocillation.
Now I came to know that she is going to file a case against me based on above three allegation. What should I do now? Do I need to go to jail or will I lose my job once I am arrested. Please help me. I am very much worried.
NOW SOME LAWYERS ADVICE ME TO FILE AN RCR CASE AGAINST HER....BUT CAN I FILE AND RCR AND AT THE SAME TIME SENT THE FIRST TAALAQ NOTICE ACCORDING TO MUSLIM LAW.......... WILL IT BE CONTRADICTORY???ALSO I AM AFRAID IF SHE COME BACK AFTER RCR MY LIFE WITH HER WILL BE MISERABLE....I DONT WANT TO KEEP HER BACK....BUT TO GET BENEFIT FOR GETTING AB IF SHE FILES 498a, I WANT TO FILE RCR.....PLEASE ADVISE
Mustafa
